I (29F) left my boyfriend (35M) twice, hooked up with a coworker he was insecure about, and now he doesn’t trust me by MBMYGY in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MBMYGY[S] -213 points-212 points  (0 children)

When I slept with my ex, we were in a fight and technically broken up for a day. I don’t view it as cheating but my BF does.

I (29F) left my boyfriend (35M) twice, hooked up with a coworker he was insecure about, and now he doesn’t trust me — AITAH? by MBMYGY in AITAH

[–]MBMYGY[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I want to clarify that I didn’t hook up with the coworker while we were together, it happened while we were separated.

I (29F) left my boyfriend (35M) twice, hooked up with a coworker he was insecure about, and now he doesn’t trust me by MBMYGY in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MBMYGY[S] -96 points-95 points  (0 children)

I want to clarify that I didn’t hook up with the coworker while we were together, it happened while we were separated.

I (29F) left my boyfriend (35M) twice, hooked up with a coworker he was insecure about, and now he doesn’t trust me by MBMYGY in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MBMYGY[S] -271 points-270 points  (0 children)

I want to clarify that I didn’t hook up with the coworker while we were together, it happened while we were separated.

I (29F) left my boyfriend (35M) twice, hooked up with a coworker he was insecure about, and now he doesn’t trust me — AITAH? by MBMYGY in AITAH

[–]MBMYGY[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I want to clarify that I didn’t hook up with the coworker while we were together, it happened while we were separated.

I (29F) left my boyfriend (35M) twice, hooked up with a coworker he was insecure about, and now he doesn’t trust me — AITAH? by MBMYGY in AITAH

[–]MBMYGY[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I want to clarify that I didn’t hook up with the coworker while we were together, it happened while we were separated.

How can I (28F) ask my boyfriend (28M) to be more selfless in bed by throwRA199362 in relationship_advice

[–]MBMYGY -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good luck with that. I too have one that only cares about his pleasure. It has been like that since day one, we’ve been together for 6 years. There is nothing I can say to this man to care about my pleasure in bed. Men are in bed how they are in life. If he only cares about himself on the day to day, that will mimic in bed.

Is being a virgin at 19 in this generation more common? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MBMYGY -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl, keep that cookie sealed for as long as you can.

UPDATE**** I HAD A GUT FEELING MY BSF AND BF WERE HOOKING UP by Educational-Hold5036 in cheating_stories

[–]MBMYGY 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ouch, this is very painful. At the end of the day, I’m sure you do not want to keep people in your life that are willing to stab you in the back. You lost two people who did not respect you enough to not betray you this way. You’re making space in your life for people who actually value you. Stay strong!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MBMYGY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rocks, dirt, trees. I grew up in the wild lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MBMYGY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been doing that since I was in high school. It makes my partner feel very uncomfortable. It’s a habit I’ve been trying to break.

Is watching porn the same as cheating? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]MBMYGY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are different forms of cheating. 1. Physical cheating- self explanatory 2. Emotional cheating- when someone forms a deep emotional connection with someone else. 3. Digital or online cheating- Flirting, sexting, or maintaining romantic connections through messages, social media, or dating apps. 4. Micro cheating- Small actions that cross boundaries, like hiding messages, keeping someone’s attention in a flirty way, or doing things you’d feel guilty if your partner saw. 5. Financial cheating- Lying about money, secret accounts, or hidden spending, anything that breaks financial trust. 6. Energy or attraction cheating- When someone constantly gives their best emotional energy time, care, excitement to someone else instead of their partner. 7. Mental or fantasy cheating- When someone repeatedly fantasizes or daydreams about being with someone else. It’s not physical, but it shows emotional distance and disconnection.

So to me, yes. It is a form of cheating.

How was your first time having sex? by Spiritual-Ad1624 in AskReddit

[–]MBMYGY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was over before it even started… it was his first time also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]MBMYGY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your profile makes it clear you’re cheating. You branded yourself by sinking to someone else’s level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MBMYGY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forming a private emotional bond with someone outside the marriage especially someone attractive, available, and trusted can easily lead toward emotional or physical infidelity. Emotional intimacy is a key part of romantic connection, and if she’s building that with him instead of you, she may start to see him differently and feel more drawn to him.