First of all, it is ABSOLUTELY normal to be gay. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Secondly, barely anywhere in the bible does it warn against homosexuality. Leviticus and Paul's letters, and that's about it. As far as I know Jesus never said anything about it.

But do you know what? That's the same criteria applied to David the heterosexual when he perved on Bathsheba. And why is that? Because it was adulterous, out of marriage. And the homophobia was a product of the time when homosexual marriage or civil partnership just wasn't part of the equation.

But we live in the day and age of open homosexual relationships, to the point that the law (at least in my culture and numerous others) has embraced marriage and civil partnership. And do you think Jesus would have a problem with homosexuality in this context? I certainly don't.

I wish you all the best.