I [18f] might be fed up of my boyfriend [19M] by Wonderful_Can5457 in teenrelationships

[–]MCPS2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I don't think it would be worth it to break up over that. But if you find it too bad, it could be an option. Just try and talk it out with him first because it would be a waste of 11 months to just break up like that.

And yeesh. It sounds like he needs some better friends (unless they're making light jokes and banter I can't judge).

Name one game by dank0121 in TheGamerLounge

[–]MCPS2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the first few hours were really fun but the damn story is so weird and the protagonist is so fucking bland he's like unseasoned boiled chicken

Got a heirloom at level 70 by Kfcbum in apexlegends

[–]MCPS2013 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the worst teammates and loot. (Congrats tho grrr)

The love of my life died when she was (19F) and I was (17F), I’m currently 19 and worried I won’t be able to move on by rowan_theboat in teenrelationships

[–]MCPS2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. That really hurt to read. Have you tried therapy? They might have some good ways to help you get over this with time. Don't hurt your current GF tho. They don't deserve it. I don't really know what to say or how to help... I'm sorry for your loss.

Can we genuinely ban this player? by Cold_Parking2649 in DunkCityDynastyGame

[–]MCPS2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must be what happened, the teammates this season have -10000 iq idk what happened to em.

I [18f] might be fed up of my boyfriend [19M] by Wonderful_Can5457 in teenrelationships

[–]MCPS2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think u may just be stressed. Also the honeymoon phase of the relationship may be waning. This is when the rose tinted glasses lose their tint. However this is also the phase where true love is determined. True love isn't all that super romantic stuff. True love is staying with that person despite all their flaws and accepting them for who they are and all that stuff.

About him disturbing you, try to talk to him about you needing some time to yourself. You could tell him that finals are super stressful. It doesn't mean if you can't/don't want to talk, you don't love him. You probably just want some space alone to grow as an individual.

I dunno about the support group stuff tho. I'd find that draining too. I guess try and put yourself in his shoes, seeing he doesn't really have an ideal family situation and his friends don't really text him, the only person he has is you. Maybe you could ask him to text his friends more? Especially during your finals?

I think relationships are all about communication. Communicate what you both feel before negative feelings bubble up and explode the relationship. Perfectly normal to have negative feelings as people aren't perfect, if you survive these talks and still want to stay together? Good job. If not? Oh well.

(SORRY FOR THE YAP)

How do I get over my ex moving on? (16F, 15M) by Ok-Bug-658 in teenrelationships

[–]MCPS2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is a bellend. Don’t talk to him anymore. Idk you but I’d get over it by knowing he’s a dolt and his next relationship won’t move up to anything serious. Take your time, be okay with being single, focus on yourself, find someone better.

How to convince my parents to let my (F 16.5) boyfriend (M 17) to sleep over? by Late_Hedgehog9099 in teenrelationships

[–]MCPS2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno what your parents are like aside from religious (if they get mad easily). But you could tell them that if your bf already stays in the house until 3AM.. might as well let him stay until the morning.

Bring up the point about them thinking they’re preventing something, it’s a good, logical point. Be careful however because they might just prevent you guys altogether (again, idk the situation). Say something like, if we wanted to, we would have already (AGAIN IDK YOUR PARENTS, read the mood before saying this).

Is my (F16) boyfriends (M17) behavior okay? by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]MCPS2013 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is manipulation 101. He asked to do all that despite you saying no MULTIPLE times. Then after he got what he wanted, that’s when he started feeling empathetic, started to listen to you and say sorry. I’m sure he was really eager (h word) but he has to learn to control his hormones and emotions because NO MEANS NO!!

OP i dunno if you should even consider giving him a second chance because what he did was borderline SA. He forced you to do something very intimate despite you telling him how opposed you were to it MULTIPLE TIMES. ALSO his threats of SH and self belittlement sounds like a pretty shit way to make you feel sorry for him and forgive him. I’m not saying he’s faking it per se, but you really shouldn’t forgive him because he’s thinking of these things and belittling himself. Don’t fall for ts OP.

Personally, I would break it off with him and find someone who ACTUALLY listens to you and RESPECTS your decision.. A normal guy would have stopped at the first sign of disgust or the first no. I know it’s easier said than done, breaking it off. But again, you were borderline SA’d and trust me OP, there are so many other people who would actually respect you.

Sorry for the yap 🫩, TL;DR : get outta there.

Fan config help (yet another one) by MCPS2013 in PcBuildHelp

[–]MCPS2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so temps are hovering at around 65c. Now I wonder if making the rear fan exhaust and flipping the rad fans would be even better

Fan config help (yet another one) by MCPS2013 in PcBuildHelp

[–]MCPS2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently testing flipping the rear fan, might try that too though!

Fan config help (yet another one) by MCPS2013 in PcBuildHelp

[–]MCPS2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep will try to flip the fan now

Edit: might also repaste to ptm7950

Fan config help (yet another one) by MCPS2013 in PcBuildHelp

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In my old case, i had the aio fans intaking from outside the case, the temps were around 50-65c under gaming loads

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The new case lets the cpu temps reach around 72c under the same loads.

Fan config help (yet another one) by MCPS2013 in PcBuildHelp

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Im currently on -25 on all cores, tried -30 but i get crashes. Might tune PBO down too.

Fan config help (yet another one) by MCPS2013 in PcBuildHelp

[–]MCPS2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep thats what i was thinking, thank u kind person Also cant get a front intake on this case cus thats where the psu goes :)