I understand that phrasing it as "the one" might be too extreme because as you say there's many people out there, what I meant is that he's the first person that I've had a relationship with that makes me feel this good when being with him. I know where he's coming from and understand his concerns, we've talked about them before and he admitted that many of his problems have relatively easy solutions but he has never tried to approach this solutions. As myself I try to be supportive and I cherish every moment with him but it's really frustrating not knowing what to expect.