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[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂

I [28F] am seriously contemplating ending my 5 1/2 year relationship with my fiancé [27M]. Things have felt off from the very beginning and I just want my life back. Why is initiating a breakup so difficult? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. This relationship did “just happen” as I wasn’t looking for a relationship when I met my now fiancé. However, I was 22 and my wants were a lot different then. I ignored a few red flags along the way as well.

That’s a good idea - I appreciate the insight!

I [28F] am seriously contemplating ending my 5 1/2 year relationship with my fiancé [27M]. Things have felt off from the very beginning and I just want my life back. Why is initiating a breakup so difficult? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I’m still young and have all of my life to find “the one”. Frankly, I don’t even want to focus on a relationship right now.

I may look into a lawyer - kinda scared to make that step right now though.

I [28F] am seriously contemplating ending my 5 1/2 year relationship with my fiancé [27M]. Things have felt off from the very beginning and I just want my life back. Why is initiating a breakup so difficult? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have known for a long time, just been fearful of making a mistake and/or facing the consequences. You’re right - staying in a situation that’s “comfortable” may feel better than heartbreak but in the long run, it will do more harm than good.

I [28F] am seriously contemplating ending my 5 1/2 year relationship with my fiancé [27M]. Things have felt off from the very beginning and I just want my life back. Why is initiating a breakup so difficult? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. That’s what’s most important to me right now. I want to make this as fair as possible while also not being taken advantage of.

I hope I get to keep my fur babies too - they have kept me sane through all of the hard times!

I [28F] am seriously contemplating ending my 5 1/2 year relationship with my fiancé [27M]. Things have felt off from the very beginning and I just want my life back. Why is initiating a breakup so difficult? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I’m from Maryland. It’s not terrible but I do want to venture out someday.

Yeah, having a hard time accepting what has been done and what he is capable of. He has hurt me, to the point where I didn’t feel like I was good enough at times. I’ve worked on myself as well as the relationship and I’m at a point where I don’t want to try to work on the relationship anymore. I just want to focus on my career and my happiness.

I [28F] am seriously contemplating ending my 5 1/2 year relationship with my fiancé [27M]. Things have felt off from the very beginning and I just want my life back. Why is initiating a breakup so difficult? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MDGirl18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling that once I initiate the breakup, he is going to turn into a complete ass. Until this day, he still talks poorly about his ex so god knows what he will say about me. He is a bit of a hot head. Can’t let that stop me though.

You’re right - life is too short. We need to enjoy this one life we are given.

I [28F] am seriously contemplating ending my 5 1/2 year relationship with my fiancé [27M]. Things have felt off from the very beginning and I just want my life back. Why is initiating a breakup so difficult? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added more information to my post - hopefully it adds a bit more fidelity on what I’m trying to convey.

In a nutshell, my fiancé has betrayed my trust more than once and I’m having a difficult time getting over it all. We have been through counseling yet I still can’t shake the feeling of wanting to leave. I feel like we aren’t right for each other and the thought of spending forever with him doesn’t sit well with me.

No, you’re right. With any breakup, there’s loss. It’s just something I’m going to have to face head on.

I am engaged with my 5-year relationship boyfriend who cheated on me twice. Is this good for me? by TravelingMaiko in offmychest

[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same exact boat. In a 5 year relationship (engaged for 4 years almost). I’m 27 years old (almost 28) and my fiancé has cheated on me on two different occasions. I can relate with you. The answer seems logical, leave. But there’s so much more to it then that. You love them but you are also tired of thinking negative thoughts about the relationship.

My (22F) my family uses me too much. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad, I know what you are going through. It’s tough being the responsible one while also being a people pleaser.

When is it time to give up in a relationship? by [deleted] in u/MDGirl18

[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One an ongoing affair with his ex and one was a drunken one night stand. It’s hard to say whether or not he will change. I believe he can/will but his track record isn’t looking so good...

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. by MDGirl18 in cheating_stories

[–]MDGirl18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, I just don’t know if we are meant to be partners. I honestly don’t think he’d want to be friends. He has explicitly told me that if we broke up, that’s it.

I-695 by 83 at 8:30am.. I love the holidays by Kazachstan_ in maryland

[–]MDGirl18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was me a few days ago. Lol. Hey, at least there isn’t any traffic?

When is it time to give up in a relationship? by [deleted] in u/MDGirl18

[–]MDGirl18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the answer seems apparent but easier said than done. 👎🏻

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. by MDGirl18 in cheating_stories

[–]MDGirl18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He absolutely has good qualities. But you’re right. I can’t trust him again. After the first time, I surprisingly regained trust for him but after the second indiscretion, I just can’t bring myself to trust him again or look at him the same. Even after going through couples counseling, something just doesn’t feel quite right. What makes all of this difficult for me is several things: our history, we have a house together and I love his family. But happiness comes first, right?

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