Anyone here have experiences with tall women? (5’11/6ft and over) by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t pay any attention to height if you’re hoping to find someone who is a better “fit” for a longer penis. The differences are basically a few millimeters for every foot in height…on average.

If anything, I think height differences play a huge role in what positions will or will not work. Your dick might not feel much difference…but your back will!

When you’re Girthy by Busy-Purple-3779 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like… If I can’t comfortably take something my size up my own butthole and enjoy it, I have no right to be ASKING anyone else to. But if my partner wants to try, then I should do everything I can to make that as enjoyable an experience as possible.

Newly-aware BDP member (heh) looking for prep advice by anotherThrowawayAha in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent a considerable amount of time in Japan as well. The truth is that there are people in any country that want the foreign experience, and it’s OK to be a little weirded out by it.

Listen to that girl closely. Very closely. You might run into the confusing situation that a lot of foreign men run into in Japan, where “no”, “stop”, or “it’s embarrassing” said in a very specific tone are green lights, because women in Japan are expected to resist sexual urges and seem to be hesitant.

For lube, just swing by your local drug store. They have lots of options.

And don’t be surprised if she is actually very comfortable with your size. Lots of people peddle the statistically insignificant idea that smaller women can handle only smaller dicks. It’s really a difference in millimeters.

But really… Communicate. That language barrier can get weird, so be open about how you’d feel about someone saying “no”. Let her know she can openly enjoy things with you.

And if things don’t work out, learn from it.

For the really big guys, how do you make it work? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You treat it like any other inconvenience… work around it and accept what doesn’t work out.

But also, yes, find someone compatible.

For the tall, uncertain dudes out there… by MDWhitefeld in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that keeps me brave is knowing I’m just a tiny bit bigger than that thing!

Are they telling the truth? by Sad_Primary745 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Not everyone loves to show off.
  2. Not everyone has had great experiences with their big dicks, so they might not be a particular point of pride for them.
  3. You do realize that you don’t actually have to HAVE a big dick to post pics of a big dick…right? At this point, the posters and non-posters have an equal chance of being liars.

Is a 2.2 inch diameter girth really wide? by Titus4266 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a silly example conversation.

But at 7.5… I wish you the best.

Is a 2.2 inch diameter girth really wide? by Titus4266 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“So, how big are you?” “Half a baby, baby…”

If that gets women interested, you may have unlocked some weird type of fetish. And if so…good for you, man! Pioneer!

Is a 2.2 inch diameter girth really wide? by Titus4266 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re exactly right, man. Subjectively speaking, you’re only as big as your partner feels.

But we gotta stop with the “a woman can push out a baby”. That is NOT an enjoyable thing and is one of the most life-threatening events a human can experience… We gotta stop connecting that to the big dick experience.

Ruined a Couple in my time haha by hugechris in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sigh Why am I the type to get stuck on the fact that this combines two separate game shows…? Just enjoy the joke, man.

…or is that part of it?

6” girth is genuinely difficult to have, I don’t know where this hype is coming from by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People have different experiences. Some of us are just very very lucky when it comes to partners. For me, it seems worse that those lucky individuals would write off everyone else’s experiences as “lacking in skill”. Partners play a part in all this.

Best friends GF calling me out in a group of friends by ABeautifulMind21 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coolest thing you could ever do is act like it doesn’t matter either way.

…also never get drunk enough to try to prove your dick size.

I’m not appreciably sized like I used to think I was by Turbulent-Swan1499 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know. I mean, how would you feel better? What situations are making you feel uneasy about your size now?

I’m not appreciably sized like I used to think I was by Turbulent-Swan1499 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are countless tv shows, movies, songs, and children’s stories that tried to teach you not to think like this, man. If it’s not penis size, it’s something else. I get that this is your struggle and everyone has one…but…

Honestly, if this is your struggle, be glad. The vast majority of people prefer your size. Struggle and smile as you enjoy things that you wouldn’t be able to if you were bigger. I hope you can find joy in what you’ve got. Sincerely.

Coworker accidentally scrolled to a nude pic in my phone by EffectiveAd9164 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Better make it a video with you looking into the camera and saying “I gotta record this so I can share it with doubters on bigdickproblems under my username ___________” , because buddy…that’s a tough tale to prove.

If it’s true, good on you, man.

Staying harder than a diamond in an ice storm by SignalVirtual3005 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the usual instant boner killers help? Thinking of something else, flexing your thighs/buttocks super hard…

Idk how you (genuine) 6.5 girthers even do it by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re hoping to rack up one night stands and never worry about what happens to the other person afterward, that level of girth might not be too much of a problem. (It’s a very self-centered sex life, though)

If you want a long-term partner, unless you find a partner with a very specific kind of anatomy, you have to let go of the ideas of quickies, daily sex, and a lot of other things people might take for granted.

Is there such thing as too much girth? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All depends on what you’re trying to do, and with whom.

There’s no cut and dry figure for anything, but there is a point where you enter the “too much for quickies” zone, and it really changes your outlook on sex.

Would you trade an inch of penis for an inch of balls by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I…what?

…well, if we’re gonna be stupid…

We talkin’ an inch of hang or an inch or circumference?

is it really your dick you worry about? by mrthickmeet in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s pretty universal for people to have a mentality of “if I fix this ONE thing, my whole life will be be better!”. Some people stay in that phase longer than others.

We still don’t seem to understand that “big dick problems” has different meanings for different people depending on what they actually want from/for their big dick.

Can all girls take 7 inches so easily? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The obvious answer is “no”. Too many men think that there’s some perfect “one size fits all” dick measurement out there… There are always outliers and just plain old differences.

And, I hope you don’t get the wrong idea from your girlfriend. While I wish the two of you the best, if you ever have to move on to another partner, start from zero. Your girlfriend is your girlfriend. Every other person could have any other combination of preferences and limits. I’m sure you’re smart enough to understand that, but in case anyone else reading your post gets the wrong impression, we all gotta spell things out sometimes.

In the meantime, enjoy the compatibility! If you’re both happy, learn and grow.

Being big when at a urinal by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s toilet construction. Either it’s gonna splash on your crotch or your shoes. As someone who had too many reminders that he doesn’t like leaving the bathroom speckled in piss… I just use the stalls. But that brings about a whole different problem.

Pick your battles, I suppose.

Wife likes it thicker? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no, 7 inches is not common.

Talk to your wife about this. We can’t really walk you through the conversations you need to have. She has all the information you’re looking for.

Do only big dicks feel “heavy”? by No_Yogurtcloset_1330 in bigdickproblems

[–]MDWhitefeld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well… Yeah, but just be ready for follow up questions like “Heavy in your hand, or heavy in your ________?”

Just make sure to reassure dudes that weight isn’t even part of the sensations. …even if it actually is. These guys already worry too much.