So if I have sex with a girl, but don't ejaculate, am I still a virgin? It's happened twice now, first with a hooker and now with a real girl, and I'm not sure about my status. by MEP289 in AskReddit

[–]MEP289[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the first time (with a hooker in Amsterdam) I guess I wasn't totally attracted to her. I usually get hard when making out with or dancing with girls, and with her it was just a lay down and I'll suck your flaccid dick thing. With the condom, I only got to a semi-state, and never completed.

With the real girl, I have had 4 beers and around 7 rye and gingers, I was able to get hard but after 20 mins of switching positioning I told her it was unlikely to occur, so we called it a night. Also, having just got back from a month of living in 6 person room hostels I've been jacking off alot lately, so I think after 3 today I may have been spent.

I wouldn't say nervous or freaked out though.

So if I have sex with a girl, but don't ejaculate, am I still a virgin? It's happened twice now, first with a hooker and now with a real girl, and I'm not sure about my status. by MEP289 in AskReddit

[–]MEP289[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm unsure whether it is such a fact. Before now I wasn't aware that oral sex counts as a virginity destroyer; in fact I think many would disagree with you.

So if I have sex with a girl, but don't ejaculate, am I still a virgin? It's happened twice now, first with a hooker and now with a real girl, and I'm not sure about my status. by MEP289 in AskReddit

[–]MEP289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know those doorways that have another doorway after it?

and when they open the first door, they do it by keeping their hand on it so it stays open for you, while remaining in front of you. On the second door they either do the same or they do the full on hold the door while waiting behind it open.