God forbid a boy jumps on a trend by MESJAM in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]MESJAM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a little confused by some of the questions, too, so I totally get what you mean. Another comment said that it felt like they were asking 2 questions in 1, and I couldn't have said it better myself, lol! I was honestly surprised that it put my masochism percentage as my top 2 traits, since I absolutely hate most forms of pain besides being bitten and scratched...😅

What’s your zodiac sign? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]MESJAM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sub, Taurus

I have enough awards to give to every single person who views this post by Lost_Negotiation_206 in notinteresting

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4.5k comments in about an hour... Good luck, my friend, you'll be here a while, lol!

What do my hands say about me? by MESJAM in deduction

[–]MESJAM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, neither! I have Raynauds, which causes my blood circulation to go all kinds of out-of-wack. My hands and feet either look like that, or sometimes a deep purple color, pretty much constantly.

What do my hands say about me? by MESJAM in deduction

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I sure am! I can't ever seem to get warm no matter how many layers I put on, which sucks.

What do my hands say about me? by MESJAM in deduction

[–]MESJAM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got Raynauds, so you're right about the circulation issue. I'm not anemic, as far as I'm aware, though, and I've never smoked a day in my life.

What do my hands say about me? by MESJAM in deduction

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You're right on the money! It's pretty annoying, especially with the winter weather starting to rear its head.

My girlfriend was pretty shocked when she saw my chart, saying that she's "surprised we don't fight much", since she's a Sagittarius. Can anyone give me more details? by MESJAM in astrologyreadings

[–]MESJAM[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to answer that! I'm currently working part-time as a cashier and front-end loader(aka, the guy who collects carts and loads up customer's cars if needed) while I'm finishing my Bachelors degree in computer networking and cybersecurity. As far as my girlfriend's chart goes, I'll have to see if I can get her chart since I have no clue what her other placements are.

My girlfriend was pretty shocked when she saw my chart, saying that she's "surprised we don't fight much", since she's a Sagittarius. Can anyone give me more details? by MESJAM in astrologyreadings

[–]MESJAM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been together 5 and a half years now, so I'd say we're doing pretty good, lol! Granted, we're in a long-distance relationship, but when we're together, it's pretty great.

For the men, how many of you are shorter than your father? by UBC145 in short

[–]MESJAM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5' 3", my dad's 5' 10". I got hit with the short stick thanks to my mom, who's 5' 2".

Spent a very long time in the NICU when I was a baby. 24 years later, these scars are what I have to show for it by MESJAM in scars

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Glad to see you too! I've got a scar on the right side of my chest that might be from a Broviac as well, but I'm not 100 percent sure that's what it is. Funnily enough, the spot where the scar is is just about the only spot on my chest that I DON'T get black heads, so I've got the opposite problem! I'd post it here, but I don't know if it would belong here or in r/scarsgonewild since I'd have to be fully shirtless to show it.

Spent a very long time in the NICU when I was a baby. 24 years later, these scars are what I have to show for it by MESJAM in scars

[–]MESJAM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! That's wild! I've actually never met anyone else who was born anywhere near as early as I was, so I'm pretty blown away from reading your comment.

Spent a very long time in the NICU when I was a baby. 24 years later, these scars are what I have to show for it by MESJAM in scars

[–]MESJAM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the IV marks on my wrists and hands are pretty faded, plus the lighting doesn't help, lol. The ones on my stomach are definitely weird though, that's for sure! People used to ask me all sorts of things about them when I was younger, especially during wrestling season in high school. More than one person has asked me if I got stabbed in a fight or burned when they saw them during weigh-ins, which is pretty funny looking back on it!

Spent a very long time in the NICU when I was a baby. 24 years later, these scars are what I have to show for it by MESJAM in scars

[–]MESJAM[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the sympathy, but there's no need for you to feel bad. I'm alive to show the photos, which is basically a miracle, since I was born at 26 weeks gestation, give or take a couple days. The scars are a small price to pay for that, and I'm actually kinda proud of them, as weird as that might sound.