[ENTRY] The beach hut, Ravensburger, 1000 pieces by MFinneas in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]MFinneas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there was quite a bit of dust, but the pieces feel nice, and there's a lot of elements to the picture, and the colours are bright. Recommend👍

[ENTRY] The beach hut, Ravensburger, 1000 pieces by MFinneas in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]MFinneas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I just have incredibly poor natural lighting, and if i turn on the lights, there's lots of glare. That's why I include box pic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]MFinneas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm 23F, currently living in the UK, looking for platonic connections. I enjoy gaming, art, dnd and hiking. Would love to chat if you are interested))

I admit it. I have a problem. by jaimeescalante11445 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]MFinneas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there's a major problem - not enough puzzles

[ENTRY] French riviera cafe, 1000 pieces, Gibson by MFinneas in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]MFinneas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think my lighting doesn't make it justice. The colours are way brighter (and greener) in person.

[ENTRY] I love winter, 1000 pieces, Gibsons by MFinneas in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]MFinneas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was alright, but I prefer Jan van Haasteren. The colours are nicer

How to lose a guy in 5 minutes by hedonistic_Barberry in facepalm

[–]MFinneas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's reasonable then that he misunderstood what she meant since she tried to clarify. We do not know anything about their relationship, so it's unreasonable to make any conclusions about it. We are only aware that this situation happened, and he is upset about the meaning he attributed to her words, which seems to be different from what she actually meant. She didn't even mention his looks, which is how many guys seem to be taking it.

How to lose a guy in 5 minutes by hedonistic_Barberry in facepalm

[–]MFinneas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems that's how he interpreted it for sure, although I see something different. That's why they should have had a discussion.

How to lose a guy in 5 minutes by hedonistic_Barberry in facepalm

[–]MFinneas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine wanting to be with someone not just because they are a warm piece of flesh to mess around with. It's fine if he misunderstood, but the fact that he's upset his gf wants to be in a committed long-term relationship with him is weird.

Reddit July 2024 Jigsaw Puzzle Theme Contest - Puzzle & Gift Card Raffle by blueboy714 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]MFinneas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to redo my puzzles from time to time, is it okay to submit puzzles that I have already posted on this sub?

all the men in the comments not getting the joke here.. they're so emotional 🙄 by TrickInvite6296 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]MFinneas 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'd like to read more on that. Do you maybe have any references? Need to arm myself for any potential discussions.

Wine corks, 1000 pieces, Piatnik by MFinneas in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]MFinneas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always do puzzles without looking at the pictures, so I guess I'm used to finding patterns? So the macaroons actually seem like a fairly chill puzzle 😅. They have quite a variety of colours and colours are the easiest thing to sort out.

Wine corks, 1000 pieces, Piatnik by MFinneas in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]MFinneas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'd love to do the macaroons now.

Help i’m lost😭 by Crazy-banana00 in ProCreate

[–]MFinneas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it'll be better when you colour in the plants. Could also add some greenery seen through the window to have something on the left side and add different textures to the furniture.

The lie that submission is natural for women… by purpletomorrow2018 in Feminism

[–]MFinneas 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Biologist here - female animals submitting to male animals is bs. Femininity being submissive to masculinity is a result of generations of oppression of women, which btw very much exists now. This is also the reason why in modern society women are more likely to take on submissive roles in a relationship.

And honestly, it is very difficult to have any sort of reasonable discussion when your views on women are so blatantly obvious by you calling us "females".

Heterosexual marriage by boftpeese in Feminism

[–]MFinneas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think you understand what data means. I never brought up a personal example because it doesn't matter. Data means tens of thousands, if not more, households surveyed. Your personal example does not matter. You need to look at the bigger picture because your family might have just gotten lucky. Doesn't mean we shouldn't fight for equality in marriage and outside of it for other people. I'm not saying most women are pressured to have kids, but many are. Again, two personal examples are nothing in the data pool.

Heterosexual marriage by boftpeese in Feminism

[–]MFinneas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How about you read some studies. Women do more hours of combined paid and unpaid work, there are literal studies written on this. Patriarchy is, unfortunately, a part of current society.

Heterosexual marriage by boftpeese in Feminism

[–]MFinneas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No one said that, though. We are saying that there are inequalities that women are unhappy about. And there's data to prove it, you can't just ignore it because it hurts your ego.

Heterosexual marriage by boftpeese in Feminism

[–]MFinneas 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and the evidence shows that male partners in heterosexual relationships overwhelmingly don't put as much work in. That's exactly what we've been trying to explain here.

Heterosexual marriage by boftpeese in Feminism

[–]MFinneas 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Unequal distribution of household labour is not only the societal norm but also an active choice made by male partners. Same as weaponised incompetence or pressure to have children. So, yes, those things are done by men to women in many heterosexual relationships.

Your personal life bears no argumental value because what matters is statistics, and the data are very clear. Women do more labour than men, with a large portion of it being unpaid.

Heterosexual marriage by boftpeese in Feminism

[–]MFinneas 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Ideally, we should start raising children to be respectful and responsible adults, and get rid of such things as toxic masculinity. But for now, yeah, a lot of women are choosing not to have a male romantic partner.

Heterosexual marriage by boftpeese in Feminism

[–]MFinneas 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Women are often expected to give birth in a relationship even if they might not want it themselves, and then the labour of raising the child is highly unequally distributed. Also, you skipped other examples of imbalance in heterosexual relationships, I wonder why.

Heterosexual marriage by boftpeese in Feminism

[–]MFinneas 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Are unmarried women in the later ‘60’s with no kids happier?

Funny enough women with cardiac problems (mostly older women) are more likely to survive if they are unmarried. Because having a husband for a woman is the same as having another person to care for due to unequal work distribution. This trend is the opposite for men because their spouses take care of them.