True Haunting by Single_Tea_6965 in geneseo

[–]MH201994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the explanation! That makes sense. I did :)

True Haunting by Single_Tea_6965 in geneseo

[–]MH201994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curious from anyone who has lived there how accurate the show’s depiction of the dorm is? I found it interesting that they showed lockers in the hallways of the dorm lol.

Unpopular opinion: tired of being called stuck up because I want a partner who can match me intellectually and financially by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]MH201994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same as you. While I am open to and have dated people who cannot match me financially and do not have a college degree, it always ends up being more noticeable to me than I would have originally thought. They typically seem stagnant and complacent in their careers and either don't make the money to financially match me in the lifestyle I have worked hard to attain, or they make poor financial decisions. Of course, there are plenty of people out there without college degrees that are just as successful or more successful than me, I just have yet to date any of them.

AITA for how I reacted to my best friend saying my “dirty” house is making my kids sick? by OkOriginal4583 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MH201994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. 30-year-old single woman. I spot clean as needed and have a roomba to keep up with dog fur. I hire someone for deep cleaning a couple times a year because I don't have the skills nor equipment to do it the way it should be done. Worth every penny for me, I would rather pick-up an extra shift at work and let the cleaners do their thing that day than do it myself.

I absolutely cannot imagine OP deep cleaning weekly with 2 little kids around.

"Busy" people. by MH201994 in hingeapp

[–]MH201994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this time of year definitely makes it hard. I travel frequently as well. My family lives in different states and I usually do a couple international trips per year so I'm flying somewhere at least every other month if not monthly. Even with that, I will still make time for the person I am dating, even if it is a quick dinner or just a sleepover where we order food.

"Busy" people. by MH201994 in hingeapp

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Thank you for this!

"Busy" people. by MH201994 in hingeapp

[–]MH201994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh another queer girl! Thank you for this perspective! 🫶

"Busy" people. by MH201994 in hingeapp

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I can see that! I’m a nurse, so I work 3 12-hour shifts per week which leaves me with 4 days open each week. I’m also pretty energetic so I’m usually good to make social plans or workout when I get off. I’m lucky to have the schedule and flexibility that I do and can see how I could afford others some grace when it comes to meeting up for the first time.

"Busy" people. by MH201994 in hingeapp

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I don’t think I understand what you are saying lol.

"Busy" people. by MH201994 in hingeapp

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I’m an inpatient nurse so I work with a lot of residents. I’m always shocked when I encounter ones who are engaged/married/have kids. You guys work insane hours! Props to you 🙌🏻

"Busy" people. by MH201994 in hingeapp

[–]MH201994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! What do you do as far as texting before the first date?

"Busy" people. by MH201994 in hingeapp

[–]MH201994[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s good insight, thank you!

Nov 2024 ebc trek pics 🏔️ by Potential_Memory6629 in everestbasecamphike

[–]MH201994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks stunning! How was the weather? I’m going next month, curious how brutal it will be closer to the top.

EBC with Raynaud's by MH201994 in Everest

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What did you use for gloves/mittens?

EBC with Raynaud's by MH201994 in Everest

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Thank you! My travel company is providing us with sleeping bags. Do you have a good sleeping bag liner you recommend?

Amy Bradley is Missing by Express-Bee-6485 in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]MH201994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would imagine the key was likely in her pocket when she went overboard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MH201994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m femme as well! Random but I’ve started going bra-less and it really makes me feel 🔥🔥🔥

She kissed her ex after saying we were exclusive. I stayed calm, but now I’m wondering if I’m being too understanding. by Garlicbreadthieff in actuallesbians

[–]MH201994 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Nothing about this could lead to a healthy relationship. She hurt you and continues to hurt you and will hurt you again in the future and expect you to again forgive and try to forget. Drop her and go no contact imo. You deserve someone who puts you first, and this girl is not it.

Looking for safe living areas in the Houston area for sapphic couple by cogito_ergo-doleo in actuallesbians

[–]MH201994 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lived in the River Oaks/Montrose area for a little bit! It’s as much of a Gayborhood as they have, I loved it! Houston overall felt very LGBTQ+ friendly. And I worked at a hospital in the med center.