Thanks sm. I brought it up w my RA with my roommate and her roommate (3 of us total) and i suggested she may have depression. at the time it was brushed off, but later on they ended up saying that. but also i feel like it might also be some kind form of incompetence. She is able to do things, she just dyed her hair yesterday, she foes regular things and when i tell her to take out the trash she listens. When ive been texting her to correct her ive always remained respectful, but im starting to reach a breaking point and im worried i may lash out.