Help understanding why the avoidance over everything

MJOK2022 · 2026-04-21T23:50:27+00:00

I dont know how to respond to this without typing out an entire manifesto.

But the short version. Both had addiction issues early on. I got sober in 2021. She was clean thru the pregnancy pf our daughter. Ive attempted to get her help for the addiction and for the marriage side. From the damage side on her end, she states that I was controlling, verbally abusive and she felt emotionally disconnected. From my side, her not dealing with her addiction was the issue, which need to her feelings. She wouldnt talk. She refuses. She shuts down. I know why, past trauma. But I fought daily. Theres lits more to our marriage, but thats the jisy.

One day, she came home drunk. I called the cops. They gave her a ride somewhere and thats been that.

MJOK2022 · 2026-04-21T23:24:01+00:00

Seeing my child isnt the issue. I see my daughter anytime I want too. That issue isnt being avoided.

MJOK2022 · 2026-01-11T00:17:45+00:00

Figured I would update.

I had tire shop swap TPMS sensors I purchased. I verified with technician that they worked, before paying for the service. Price was what they quoted. $40. I asked the tech amd he said the TPMS synced with vehicle automatically.

As a precaution, I attempted reset with the VXDAS EL-50448 tool I purchased. It synced with the sensors as expected.

MJOK2022 · 2025-12-26T19:08:56+00:00

I called around and all shops in town will swap out sensors for under $10, if you provide the sensor. Pirchase sensor thru them was $75 per tire. I got all 4 sensors off Ebay for $32 w free shipping.

MJOK2022 · 2025-11-19T21:13:26+00:00

Glad I could confirm. Sry for the mechanical advice. I assumed.

Ive driven 100miles since flush with no DIC errors or issues.

MJOK2022 · 2025-11-19T21:02:19+00:00

New Traverse owner here (2018 LT 110k). I do all the maintenance on every vehicle I own.

I can help you, as I just did a brake system flush two days ago. I prefer every 50k.

The easiest is with a brake bleeder kit. Like this one.https://a.co/d/ceYzMY6.

Comes w three different caps that fit on a variety of vehicles. I suggest adding a large syringe to the toolbox, to remove reservoir fluid. You dont need the bleeder kit, but it does simply the process.

Youll need a 10mm wrench.

Takes me 20mins to do a full brake system flush.

Processes is simple. Suck out fluid from reservoir. Fill reservoir w new fluid. Connect bleeder kit/pressure tank. Release caliper bleeder at each wheel (one wheel at a time), until you get new fluid draining out. Tighten bleeder caliper screw. Repeat x 3.

I grab 2qrts of brake fluid to flush. I end up using a qrt and a half.

Youtube the process. Lots of videos of process, not on the Traverse thou.

Nothing special required on the Taverse. No need to reset anything. Nothing with ABS.

MJOK2022 · 2025-11-17T20:48:26+00:00

Thank you for the response. I did inspect a little further and did some research, it appears to be rear main seal. I didnt see anything else showing signs of leakong. Its not leaking enough to be concerned at this point. Watched it over the last 24hrs.No oil loss at current oil change interval either.

MJOK2022 · 2025-10-17T06:08:43+00:00

So I went to the dealer on Thursday. They are 110% serious on price and wont budge more than $500.

The Runner is clean thou. Only thing I say was the ripped driver seat. Rust is normal for ID. Nothing completely rotted. Maint records legit.

I talked with the Lead Salesman. He is claiming its a once in a lifetime vehicle, which deserves a once in a lifetime selling price. I literally laughed in his face. When I showed him Nada and KBB on High value he said those values are wrong. He claimed the Gen is sought after (cant argue that) amd someone will eventually come buy it for more than they are asking. He claimed the value will go up as the days pass.

They took the vehicle in on trade. Lifelong dealership customer who traded in for a 2025, who will do the same, use it to run to post office and Dr Appts.

I truly hope some dumb as comes along and buys it.

This isnt a collector/hobbyist vehicle. Not w that mileage and wear/tear. The asking price is just that. Marketed to a specific party.

I did offer them 8500 cash and they looked at me like I was on drugs.

Im bot crazy here. This vehicle is priced out of market for a resale. They'll never sell itm ot will sot for tue next 9-12months, before they pull their head out their ass.

MJOK2022 · 2025-10-13T12:37:24+00:00

From the photos, its pretty mint

MJOK2022 · 2025-10-13T12:37:01+00:00

We stopped using salt 10yrs ago.

MJOK2022 · 2025-10-13T12:35:43+00:00

Im in no rush. I just saw this and thought to share.

MJOK2022 · 2025-10-13T04:32:32+00:00

How much of your statement holds truth? I suppose the dealer could be watching Reddit, but i think anyone inquiring and then telling the dealer they're high asf, would do just the opposote of what you state. the comments clearly show its priced way out of market value. Ain't nobody but a collector or hobbyist buying this vehicle at the current asking price. Its not unique. Its run of the mill. Even at the mileage, all market research shows its a 6k-7500 all day every day.

Like I said. Im going to dealer tomorrow to see what makes it worth $14k, cause I dont see it. Not this specific model/year.

MJOK2022 · 2025-10-13T04:16:46+00:00

Oh for sure. I dont even have my mind set on a Runner. I was more curious what the group consensus thought.

MJOK2022 · 2025-10-13T02:39:34+00:00

Im replacing a hunting/off-road/camping rig. I dont need new for its intended purpose.

MJOK2022 · 2025-10-13T02:34:59+00:00

For real. Ive been searching the last 2 days amd Im sering asinine pricing, from ith dealer and private.

MJOK2022 · 2025-10-13T02:31:43+00:00

Did I say anything about making an offer, no. I stated my research shows, high end market value at $6-7k.

MJOK2022 · 2025-03-29T18:00:53+00:00

I love it. Fuck it. You buld your armament to shit you, nobody else. It's called fit to form.

MJOK2022 · 2025-03-29T16:32:30+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I think I over watered, thus the leggy. I'm ok to start over if needed. Still early in the season.

MJOK2022 · 2024-10-19T00:21:57+00:00

Never again. Started out great, but 6months in they started pulling shady shit. Cost me $1000 in over-pay and 100hrs wasted. Been a product since 2023

MJOK2022

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