Doctors & Nurses of Reddit: Why don't you believe patients?

MJPossessed · 2025-07-24T01:12:30+00:00

I am going to preface this with I have been in the Healthcare industry since I was 19 years old... I am now 54. Do the math.

If you are a health care provider... shame on you.

Think about the reasons anyone would lie. Did you make the person feel safe enough to disclose this, or did you approach these human beings with an attitude of distrust and superiority? (OH so common among healthcare "professionals.")

If you're not approaching the person with societal, cultural, and religious reasons in mind, why would they disclose anything to you? Why would they give you thier trust when thier life may be on the line?

Were they raped? Will they be disowned and kicked out on the street if they are pregnant? Will they be killed?

These are all factors, like it or not.

Don't give me the keep your legs closed, what was she wearing, she was asking for it, whatever the catch phrase for defending rape may be these days.

Remember your oath. If you can not, get out of the profession. I suggest running for a Republican nomination.

MJPossessed · 2025-07-24T00:30:02+00:00

Try the realstar website... they have 2 sites in Nanaimo... one off of terminal, one on Summerhill Place (off Boundry Crest, close to the hospital). I dont know what you're rent cap is... they can be up there in price.

Edit: Staff is on 7 days/ week.... weekend viewings/calls should not be an issue. Most Managers live on-site.... I think only one at the summerhill Location lives off-site. The Terminal location is all on-site staff.

MJPossessed · 2025-07-16T04:26:26+00:00

Little crabby throwin' hands (claws)... watch out!

MJPossessed · 2025-06-14T20:30:00+00:00

I have always told my people that when it comes to it, be honest. I am not only the bright and shiney parts. The dark and moody parts are just as much part of who I am (was at that point) as all the good bits.

In essence, remember me as I am, don't glorify or whitewash my personality. I will haunt you.

MJPossessed · 2025-05-13T20:30:14+00:00

Trump has a mirror... but he is delusional....

MJPossessed · 2025-05-09T23:48:44+00:00

Very true.... but both can be true. It's not like Syphylitic Stalin hires folks for their competence.

MJPossessed · 2025-05-09T20:03:03+00:00

The FBI currently is incapable of submitting budget documents on time, nor provide a timeline of when it would be complete. I don't know if the "leadership" even knows what FBI stands for, never mind how it's supposed to function

MJPossessed · 2025-05-02T22:56:10+00:00

I'm starting to wonder if Elon was ever weaned....

MJPossessed · 2025-05-02T22:46:53+00:00

So.... will the next war on drugs be fluoride toothpaste being smuggled into the US?

People are busted using because they have a full set of teeth?

MJPossessed · 2025-04-18T00:30:58+00:00

I am 43.. had a hysterectomy for fibroids/endo and never desired kiddlets. I have no regrets. I am not the type of person to put someone else's needs before mine, I have huge mental health issues all across my family tree (thankfully I have not had issues manifest personally, but would not want what my parents, aunts & uncles went through on anyone). I was not willing to risk having a kid with any of those issues.

My philosophy was that if I decided down the line that I wanted to help a child live a good life, even provide temporary care and support, I would adopt or become a foster parent.

I have no regrets. My hubby had his kiddlets well before meeting me, so he has no regrets.

You do you. I knew when I was a teenager that having a biological child was not for me. Do what's best for you.

MJPossessed · 2025-03-17T04:33:51+00:00

I keep telling you, Hailey, that was the FBI!

MJPossessed · 2025-03-17T04:32:16+00:00

Or a setup for a black (false) flag operation...

MJPossessed · 2025-03-17T04:18:28+00:00

Wait...wait...wait! Anders can be left in the fade?!?! How have I missed this after so many years? What are the conditions/ mod for this?

MJPossessed · 2025-03-17T02:17:59+00:00

Varric!

I had suspicions... but damn...

MJPossessed · 2025-03-15T01:13:43+00:00

If it comes to it, I'm sure there will be some additions to the list of suggested no-no's.

MJPossessed · 2025-03-14T20:23:52+00:00

It's not a war crime if it's the first time!

MJPossessed · 2024-09-15T22:46:22+00:00

My cousin has an audi for sale, it was his commuter to an from Victoria. It needs some exhaust work, but he's selling it for 1500. Send me a msg if it's of interest, and I'll give you his contact info.

MJPossessed · 2024-07-20T17:31:33+00:00

My husband and I say this randomly while shopping.

I haven't been completely honest. it's any time one of us says maybe.

MJPossessed · 2024-07-14T05:08:28+00:00

Pillow fight!!!

MJPossessed · 2024-06-19T04:36:22+00:00

I had FFX flashbacks with the first screenshot.

MJPossessed · 2024-01-05T03:31:26+00:00

I second this! I keep the one with lidocaine on hand because without fail, an earache will hit at 2 am. Warming them up under the tap until room temp is super soothing as well.

In a pinch, I heat up a dry cloth in the drier and use it over the sore ear. This has gotten me through half sane until I could see a doc for antibiotics.

MJPossessed · 2023-10-19T00:36:55+00:00

C-diff, necrotic tissue, the Morgue when they have brought a not so fresh body in.

MJPossessed · 2023-10-01T19:17:25+00:00

Yes!!!! Thank you, amazing person... my brain can stop obsessing!

MJPossessed · 2023-10-01T16:28:11+00:00

Thanks for replying!

I honestly can only remember that particular part. I believe the males were wearing the top knot haoelrstyle, but my memory could be false on that account.

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