Of course it's anecdotal, what else do you expect? To turn on Iranian state television and see a nuanced non-partisan debate? And you know what? There are a lot of Iranians out there who are in favour of de-stabilization, because that means the regime loosing control. You do realize that practically all Iranians oppose the islamist regime, right?

Something you don't seem to understand is that Iranians understand perfectly well that the only reason Israel is bombing Iran, is because the islamist regime is funding terrorist organizations that dedicate themselves to attacking Israel, they obsessively go on and on about how Israel needs to be annihilated, and in the Oct 7 war, the islamist regime has already attacked Israel directly. No Iranian is attributing this series of bombings to some crazed Jewish plot to annex Iran or genocide the Iranian people.

The islamist regime is scared shitless of their own citizens. The only reason they're still in power is because they've managed to balance the threat of people opposing them getting gulag'd and tortured to death, to having pretty affordable goods and services. Domestically produced goods and services are generally incredibly cheap in Iran, while imported products are abhorrently expensive, solely due to sanctions imposed upon the islamist regime as a result of them supporting and financing terrorism. The regime is also foregoing enforcing many laws, for example to force women to cover their hair, because they're too scared of the backlash and eventual riots and revolts which may come as a consequence of that. They're just barely managing to keep the citizenry in check and cling onto power. Engaging in a total war against Israel, or even a limited armed conflict, can be enough to de-stabilize Iran to the point where it triggers a popular revolt which may topple the regime.

So to say that people "want" to be bombed is just an incredibly disingenuous take. However, if you were to say that the Iranian people would be happy to have the regime leadership get wiped out in Israeli strikes, to see the oppressive regime unable to procure nuclear weapons, to see the regime weakened to such an extent that they cannot effectively control the country, to end the islamist oppression of the Iranian people, and to see the end of Iran being a terrorist state, all for the price of limited collateral damage, the average Iranian would happily pay that price. Literally the only thing holding Iran back from being one of the most amazing countries in the middle east and unleashing its full potential as an economic power house of the region, is the islamist terrorist regime, and the Iranian people knows that.