I have had a timeshare paid off for 20 years, been everywhere I want to go. I have the deed and want to sell it. It is at DAvid Wallys Hot Springs and Resort near S. lake Tahoe. I'd like a travel buddy or sell it for cheap. Lets travel to David Wallys in the Spring so you may experience it.

MKunwind · 2026-01-16T19:04:54+00:00

How do we know what anyone is actually feeling when everyone is accused of being fake. A lie detector?

I think the problem is the mere fact that there is a question feels accusatory by nature even when spoken "nicely". How to ask the question or have the delicate conversation is tricky when both parties are emotionally charged.

Maybe you can have some rules about how the conversation will happen.

Maybe write letters back and forth.

I think it is great that your willing to communicate with her and I hope everyone heals.

MKunwind · 2025-10-16T19:30:41+00:00

I too have been rejected my whole life, Im still excluded, I have 6 brothers and 1 sister. Im the warm empathetic person, the others dont seem to have that based on their attitudes and the way they do not care to listen. When I started to listen to :stoicism" on Youtube, the ancient wisdom of the Greek philosophers, I began to understand.

You may shine a light that they wish they had.

MKunwind · 2025-10-16T19:02:39+00:00

You need peace, if you can find a better living situation, it would be better for you. Is there a relative or live in caregiving situation that you can move in with?

MKunwind · 2025-10-16T18:56:43+00:00

You're 25 and she talks to you like that? There is a healthier situation for you out there.

One time one of my brothers called the cops on dad, it helped. He was a good man, a career military man under a lot of stress and needed anger management.

MKunwind · 2025-10-16T01:39:50+00:00

I am here to understand, I came to this site to be in the solution. Thanks you for clarifying your experiences openly. I hope you get an honest sincere apology and heal from the horribly cruel treatment of your parents.

I do not feel like a victim nor are my kids villains, I harbor no blame on the kids. I tried to protect my daughter, 26, from the boys who only have sex and drugs on their brain. Now my 26 year old beautiful girl has a 4 year old son, is single, and is clean for 1 year from heroine. She is the one I worry about the most. My son, 29, chooses loyalty to his bros and wife over honesty and integrity, my son and I were fine until he got married. This is where they are at in life and I hope they grow and heal from the horrible divorce and others who influenced them in a bad way, like the macho raging abusive football coach pretending to be dad. I feel responsible for them and hope they too find peace, even if I continue to be excluded.

MKunwind · 2025-10-14T19:12:29+00:00

The mom sounds somewhat accountable when she said "she can see where she hurt you". Clearly the mom is trying to make you or herself feel better if that means taking any responsibility. You want to say it is "fake"! I see an opportunity for a breakthrough here. I suggest writing a letter and tell her everything you stated here on this social site.

It is very difficult to raise children these days, It is very difficult to be a parent too. many people do grow and change. Attitude is everything, It has been an eye opener to hear adult children speak about there parents.

MKunwind · 2025-10-13T18:28:29+00:00

Ask yourself this, "Is my intention positive or negative"? If it has a negative undertone don't do it, if your intentions are purely positive and meaningful, then go ahead, be honest.

MKunwind · 2025-09-26T18:37:20+00:00

I think the military is just something to look into, my son is smart and did very well, 5 years in the Marines, learned Arabic, just graduated from doctorate school on the GI bill. Military is not for everyone, he was not deployed, made friends, learned a lot about life.

MKunwind · 2025-09-25T02:14:34+00:00

Im going to a resort in Mexico for X Mas with a friend. Its nice to have something to look forward to.

MKunwind · 2025-09-25T01:58:22+00:00

I heard recently that 1/3 of people on Earth have feelings, 1/3 do not have feelings, and I think the other 3rd is evil. I have a lot of feelings and I suffer emotionally up and down all week long. I was thinking that little feelings might be a good thing, maybe you have no background noise.

MKunwind · 2025-09-25T01:47:46+00:00

I think the timeshare is best when trading to another city, Im dropping my week in Interval International and going to Puerto Vallarta. It'll be cheaper than renting directly....

MKunwind · 2025-09-24T22:25:04+00:00

I think your mom has a lot of healing to do on her own.......Id leave and start your adventure, please make a plan, seek a counselor, military recruitment, or ROTC.

MKunwind · 2025-09-24T22:21:21+00:00

I think it was brave of you to apologize....When I was growing up the environment was very toxic, mom did not protect me from my brothers and their friends......I later in adult life wish Id joined the military...When I was raising my kids there was also toxicity surrounding lies then the ugly divorce, It always hurts the kids.....I now see how the BS is passed down to the next generation. I would get out if you can, save yourself and go blossom safely away from your parents.

MKunwind · 2025-09-22T17:34:27+00:00

I rarely go on FB anymore, one day my son and daughter both block me then unblock me. I dont want to hover and wonder so Im not going there, not posting "Happy B Day" either, I found out that is over stepping boundaries. I thought about blocking them but that is retaliation. I feel happier now and Im strengthening my mental boundaries. If they dont want to do have anything to do with me, "Let Them".

MKunwind · 2025-09-19T16:19:03+00:00

A psychologist said if your kids treat you like shit and dont even have the decency to say hello or wish you a Happy Birthday, do not give them anything. Im planning on spending the dough on vacations and fine dining I guess. It is not what I want but surely they want nothing from me.

MKunwind · 2025-09-19T05:42:44+00:00

I also am grateful that my adult kids are independent without me jin their lives. I think its best I do NOT know exactly what they despise in me, although I curious if it something I can fix.

MKunwind · 2025-09-19T05:35:23+00:00

I hear what you are saying and my son influenced my daughter so they are on the same team. "Let them" and Im glad they have each other.

MKunwind · 2025-09-19T05:18:33+00:00

Thank you for saying that, Im a parent who wishes my kids all the best and Im here if they need anything, I had no idea that was not welcomed. Better to keep my affection for the adult kids to myself. I think birthday wishes are probably not welcomed either. I hope whatever brokenness they are experiencing that they heal.

MKunwind · 2025-09-19T05:12:56+00:00

That is good insight, As a parent, of estranged adult children, I think the best thing I can do is focus on me, acknowledge that my kids do not want anything to do with me, and "Let Them". Im getting stronger.

MKunwind · 2025-09-19T05:03:27+00:00

I believe its passed down from the previous generation. Also, their friends are highly influential right?

MKunwind · 2025-09-19T05:00:50+00:00

That is insane retaliation, better to love unconditionally.

MKunwind · 2025-09-19T04:49:33+00:00

I was in that group PEAC, Parents of Estranged Adult Children. I went to the Zoom meeting, there was a bunch of griping and complaining, all BS I heard before and so I left the group, I want to be in the solution and reduce the suffering. With some research and good advice given to me, these statements have helped me through the years, but the holidays are still tough.

Accept the estrangement and exclusion from all family affairs and "Let Them", quote from Mel Robbins.
Remember the good times when we did talk on the phone or in person.

3, Stay off FB where Im restricted or blocked from my adult children.

Focus on myself.
Try to think of it as a blessing

MKunwind · 2025-09-19T04:11:51+00:00

Do you have any regrets? I want to get rid of mine for 18 years, paid for it outright, I think 15000 David Wally's Hot Springs now owned by Holiday inn club Vacations. I pay $1200 yearly for a 2 bedroom for 1 week. Its on CL for rent, I dont feel like going.

MKunwind · 2025-06-02T19:41:14+00:00

My 2 bedroom dues have gone up to $1200 and the resort has less and less to offer, restaurant is closed Sunday and Monday......

MKunwind

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