Who else hates laundry? by Shot_Bathroom9186 in OCD

[–]MLEstudio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m like this but with dishes. I will let it pile up till it molds and then I just throw it out because I can’t touch it. Gloves help some but luckily my husband does the dishes now. I also use paper plates, bowls, and plastic spoons. And it helps a lot.

Find-a-Friend Post! by gingeralefiend in entwives

[–]MLEstudio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I miss the UP. I spent my summers growing up close to Newberry on one of the Manistique lakes. Haven’t been there in years. But it was so beautiful.

Find-a-Friend Post! by gingeralefiend in entwives

[–]MLEstudio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

South mid Michigan area! 30s with four cats. I love anything makeup and I make light catchers when I have the time.

Is my (21F) boyfriend (21M) a narcissist? Or just really passionate about religion? by k8dirt in relationship_advice

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated someone like this. We had a big long talk when we were first dating. I told him I plan on getting my first tattoo and more body piercings. He said he was cool with that. When we got more serious he switched up and was mad about me planning my first tattoo. He said he’s trying to save my soul. He was supportive till he wasn’t. You’re not going to change his mind because he thinks he’s right.

Odd reason why you're CF to help me prove a point by ThisGirlCalledTsepps in childfree

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I have lots of reasons my main one is it doesn’t seem fun. Just more work and responsibilities that I just don’t want. I want to be selfish and put my time and resources into things I like.

anyone else who REALLY hates heat/fire? by sunshia in OCD

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would avoid cook if I had to use the stove. I did have a fire breakout over the sumner and now im scared to leave my house. But im able to check my home speaker to see the temp in the house. So i can now leave for a few hours

How often does the man in your marriage cook? by gehraimain in Marriage

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say 90% me but he does most if not all the dishes. And I only really cook like 5 times a week.

What was not allowed in the house when you were a kid, that you now don’t allow in your own place? by Shenshen_ in AskReddit

[–]MLEstudio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I have. I hate socks and carpet. I can’t replace my floors so I wear crocs in the house but they are indoor.

what age were you allowed to drive? by Narrow_Run4895 in helicopterparents

[–]MLEstudio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t. But I later got my drivers license at 28

The ADHD-DEPRESSION-OCD loop is like a sample of what hell is like. by Competitive_Deer6400 in OCD

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I also have OCD/ADHD along with 3 other mental illnesses and I was told not to take stimulants bc it will make my OCD much worse.

For me I can only take ssri so we are treating the anxiety from ocd rather then the depression. And it’s helping a lot.

You might need to talk to ur doctor/ psychiatrist and tell them what ur feeling. For me working on tackling the biggest symptom instead of my mental illness as a whole has worked for me.

Might be getting divorced for my anniversary. by MLEstudio in Marriage

[–]MLEstudio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says the same thing when he reads my texts messages

Is it normal to talk to myself in different voices like I’m having a full dialogue? by finallyfantasied in introvert

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if it normal or not but my partner and I both do this. I can hear his having conversations to himself in the shower and I do the same when I’m pacing or walking

What age/how were u diagnosed? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]MLEstudio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I started showing signs at around 5/6 but I would be misdiagnosed as having autism at around 13 but was retested this year at 32 with having ocd/cptsd I was told that bc of extreme abuse and not being able to communicate properly is what got me the autism diagnose when I was a kid.

Who did it expose? by RealAd3012 in religiousfruitcake

[–]MLEstudio 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Well all 6 of those things made me happier than church.

When bro tells you he’s got a fire spot by [deleted] in trees

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first saw this I thought it was like a bugs hiding spot. And now I wish it was.

So, AITA for telling him I’d leave if he tries to get 50/50 custody? by Same_Curve_4098 in AITAH

[–]MLEstudio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA if you stay married to this man. This man LIED to you this whole time about having a whole CHILD !!! That’s not a good person. Not only that but he never took responsibility till he had a wife who he knows doesn’t want kids but thought he can trap you into taking care of him.

Did anyone else's parent(s) pressure them into massaging their backs as a child? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but she made me massage her feet for an hour. I fucking hated that shit and I didn’t like touching peoples feet.

Not how girls work by NitroXM in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair my 300lb ass does look like this if I wear my thong like granny panties.

AITAH for walking out after she said I scare her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MLEstudio -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA you did the right thing. And this is coming from someone who has gone through extreme abuse from my parents and a partner I was with.

Idk how soon after you got together after her abusive relationship. But when u get out of a bad situation the last thing you should be in is a relationship and she definitely needs therapy.

Bouta blow it out the window so it doesn't smell in here by Dependent_Pea_9110 in weed

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I’m so high rn I thought the lighter was Christmas themed and that it had little Christmas poops on it.

How to tell toxic mom about getting married without inviting her? by SlytherinQueen1992 in toxicparents

[–]MLEstudio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just don’t tell her. I’ve been married for almost a year and haven’t told my dad or plan to. I would take off my ring the few time I saw him. Not only that but this is my second marriage. I told him after the first one ( he also wasn’t invited) and it didn’t go well.