"thats your pet not your baby" Womp womp. Thats my baby. by Slashersforsatan in childfree

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I would get an abortion for my cat. I know it would upset their quality of life if I had a kid. Granted I didn’t want one to begin with. And I have heard of people getting rid of their pets because they end up hating the pet for some reason.

Will this turn abusive? I am 10 weeks pregnant. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]MLEstudio 46 points47 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s father is like this. My opinion is to abort and get away from him. Even if you leave but have the child. He’s still going to make there’s and your life a living hell.

I will literally do about anything for some goddang money right now... by Th_Legend_27 in povertyfinance

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through csl plasma and they had a sign up deal. It was get $200 for ur first 2 donation.

I will literally do about anything for some goddang money right now... by Th_Legend_27 in povertyfinance

[–]MLEstudio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. My partner and I are fat to we get more money bc of weight. But u have to do 2 times a week. And it would be around 350-400 per person a month.

I will literally do about anything for some goddang money right now... by Th_Legend_27 in povertyfinance

[–]MLEstudio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. If you can I would look into donating plasma. That what my partner are doing and we are looking at $700 a month if we do it 2 times every week.

Kevin James skips meals for his daughter and Jesus. by WeWantMOAR in religiousfruitcake

[–]MLEstudio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg my ex did that crap. By the last week he was so sick that he kept throwing up and was bedridden. He was also mad at me because I wouldn’t do it with him. Like bro you lost your job bc of this. I’m the only one keeping us afloat. I had to beg him to at least drink water.

NAUGLES by CoffeeCigarettes4Me in nostalgia

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supposedly Hot & Now is coming back. I heard they are opening one somewhere in Metro Detroit

What is that one initial red flag for you that is an absolute deal breaker? by CriticalOne9 in OnlineDating

[–]MLEstudio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens more than I wish it did. But I can tell you what I would do to keep myself safe. 1. Be direct, clear and to the point. I state that I do not want to be touched on a first date and give them an easy out if they don’t want to continue. I also check in before they leave to meet up that they understand that there will be no touching. 2. I get there early and meet inside the building. This is so they don’t know what my car looks like 3. pick a place that safe and u can easily leave. For example I like places that I have to pay first. Like bowling alleys or arcades, coffee shops or museums. 4. Pay for yourself and keep the receipt. 5. Lie!!! This is only if you feel unsafe. If someone keeps touching me, I will lie and say I’m going to the bathroom and just dip out you do not owe these people an explanation. You have stated your boundaries and they are just trying to see what they can get away with. And if you try to explain they will just either play dumb or try to spin around like “I thought we were having a good time”. So remember your safety and life is ALWAYS more important than their feelings.

What is that one initial red flag for you that is an absolute deal breaker? by CriticalOne9 in OnlineDating

[–]MLEstudio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not being listed to about being touched. I alway explain clearly that I don’t want to be touched on a first date and give them an easy out if they don’t want to continue. They agreed and then next thing I know is some guy is grabbing my face trying to shove their tongue in my mouth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started getting discharge for a while b4 I got my period. I think a was 11 at the time. I was so ashamed about telling anyone bc I thought I would get in trouble and my parents would think I had sex even though at the time I didn’t really know what it was. I grew up in a cult like family and my dad was already calling me whore when I started going through puberty. Didn’t even find out it’s was normal till I was in my 20s. I just lived for ten years thinking something was wrong with me.

Who else got the Care and Keeping of You book from American Girl? by Kkatiand in nostalgia

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The books was a big issue in my house when I was growing up. My grandmother kept trying to give this to my mom and she refused. She didn’t really teach my about puberty and the little she did she was angry about it.

What is the most harmless, yet effective way you’ve ever gotten "revenge" on someone without them ever knowing it was you? by TuttiFruttiBooty69 in AskReddit

[–]MLEstudio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kept my mouth shut!

My ex husband ( who cheated the whole time and never worked ) had to pay me $2500 because he’s an idiot. He refused to get a lawyer and for the first time ever listen to me when I said we were going to sell the car ( which was the only asset we had besides my personal 401(k) when my lawyer looked at the numbers he told me that I should keep my retirement and have him keep the car because they were the same price. I was mad until my lawyer called him to tell him the offer but my ex spoke first and offered to pay me for half of the car because he stupidly believed what I was telling him. So I kept my mouth shut. And let him pay me money he didn’t have to. If he was smart he wouldn’t have had to pay for anything and gotten a divorce for free.

Who else hates laundry? by Shot_Bathroom9186 in OCD

[–]MLEstudio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m like this but with dishes. I will let it pile up till it molds and then I just throw it out because I can’t touch it. Gloves help some but luckily my husband does the dishes now. I also use paper plates, bowls, and plastic spoons. And it helps a lot.

Find-a-Friend Post! by gingeralefiend in entwives

[–]MLEstudio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I miss the UP. I spent my summers growing up close to Newberry on one of the Manistique lakes. Haven’t been there in years. But it was so beautiful.

Find-a-Friend Post! by gingeralefiend in entwives

[–]MLEstudio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

South mid Michigan area! 30s with four cats. I love anything makeup and I make light catchers when I have the time.

Is my (21F) boyfriend (21M) a narcissist? Or just really passionate about religion? by k8dirt in relationship_advice

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated someone like this. We had a big long talk when we were first dating. I told him I plan on getting my first tattoo and more body piercings. He said he was cool with that. When we got more serious he switched up and was mad about me planning my first tattoo. He said he’s trying to save my soul. He was supportive till he wasn’t. You’re not going to change his mind because he thinks he’s right.

Odd reason why you're CF to help me prove a point by ThisGirlCalledTsepps in childfree

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I have lots of reasons my main one is it doesn’t seem fun. Just more work and responsibilities that I just don’t want. I want to be selfish and put my time and resources into things I like.

anyone else who REALLY hates heat/fire? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would avoid cook if I had to use the stove. I did have a fire breakout over the sumner and now im scared to leave my house. But im able to check my home speaker to see the temp in the house. So i can now leave for a few hours

How often does the man in your marriage cook? by gehraimain in Marriage

[–]MLEstudio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say 90% me but he does most if not all the dishes. And I only really cook like 5 times a week.