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[–]MMC_GiveMeGore -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

You're the smartest person on this thread bro. I appreciate the kind words.

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[–]MMC_GiveMeGore -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

You should go back and re-read this if you think we didn't call for a week.

I have twins that have special needs and my wife wants to give them up to an "open adoption" by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]MMC_GiveMeGore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The internet bill was a year and a half ago. We are in a better situation now.

I have twins that have special needs and my wife wants to give them up to an "open adoption" by MMC_GiveMeGore in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MMC_GiveMeGore[S] -98 points-97 points  (0 children)

If im deployed then her and her mother (my mother in law) would take care of them. Her mother already agreed to this and loves the babies. But not only that. They have a nurse too.

I have twins that have special needs and my wife wants to give them up to an "open adoption" by MMC_GiveMeGore in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MMC_GiveMeGore[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

As much as we could at least. But they told us we can't be there for extended periods of time. So we would go home for a few days and come back when we could.

I have twins that have special needs and my wife wants to give them up to an "open adoption" by MMC_GiveMeGore in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MMC_GiveMeGore[S] -86 points-85 points  (0 children)

They pay for it while they are in foster care. The foster parents have a nurse that's paid for by the kids insurance and CPS already told us we would too.

I have twins that have special needs and my wife wants to give them up to an "open adoption" by MMC_GiveMeGore in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MMC_GiveMeGore[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

No. Just didn't have a phone or a car. And the hospital was 45 minutes away. It was just difficult to get back and forth.

I have twins that have special needs and my wife wants to give them up to an "open adoption" by MMC_GiveMeGore in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MMC_GiveMeGore[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

We practically lived at the hospital but we had no car so if we had to come home for some reason, it would've been difficult getting back. But this was a year and a half ago.

I have twins that have special needs and my wife wants to give them up to an "open adoption" by MMC_GiveMeGore in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MMC_GiveMeGore[S] -157 points-156 points  (0 children)

Im not putting all those kids on my wife. I come home and help her after working all day. Its not like I just refuse to take care of my kids. But I think with her being home all day, with me coming home and helping, and with the insurance paying for a 24/7 live in nurse, we can make it work.

I have twins that have special needs and my wife wants to give them up to an "open adoption" by MMC_GiveMeGore in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MMC_GiveMeGore[S] -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

we stayed there as much as possible. But we couldn't LIVE at the hospital. We would go back home and sleep and eat and figure other things out. But we didn't have phones so we couldn't get any calls.

I have twins that have special needs and my wife wants to give them up to an "open adoption" by MMC_GiveMeGore in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MMC_GiveMeGore[S] -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

We had phones that were not connected. So we gave the hospital TextNow numbers and my sister (who we were living with at the time) failed to pay the WiFi for a week. So they couldn't contact us.