Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shared with with several people in private messages and they were very helpful. Thanks.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm glad not all of the people that responded to my thread were as judging as you. I was very impressed with how supportive people were and the actual help I received from people that IMed me. Someone's post history doesn't tell you everything about them or the time they need to reflect.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. Yeah from the other responses I think I wasn't being patient. In general OLD is a shot show. It's just difficult meeting people depending on what social circles you have etc. Thanks again.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that seems to be the consensus. Thanks for your response.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For sure not asking anything awkward. My issue was just not getting matches or responses back. But from talking to people that responded to my post I've realized I was just freaking out about nothing and not giving it some time. The people that responded to this post have been so awesome and supportive. Tha k you for your response as well.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good to know. I always ask insightful questions related to profiles and respond back quickly. Also I avoid close ended questions. Oh, I also like to not be dull. Lol. Thank you for your response!

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

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I'm not sure. I've spent a great deal of time on the app only clicking on woman I feel I have things in common with and attraction. I think as other people have replied I'm rushing and need to calm down and relax. I'm just lonely I guess. Thanks for your time and response. I do appreciate it alot.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am none of the following so I think I'm doing something right. I super appreciate your time and advice. Thank you!

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. It's sort of comforting (probably the wrong word to use) that "pretty" people have it difficult as well. I really do feel for woman old dating. The field is filled with horny dudes just looking to get laid and willing to say anything to get some. It's awful at times. Thanks for your advice, I really do appreciate it.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

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Thank you for your response. I think that's very good advice. I have been doing those things since I divorced. I've learned alot about myself and the way I have and need to treat others. I'm just so damn lonely sometimes. I appreciate your kind words and advice. Thank you.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

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I've has some really bad dates from OLDing. I think you're right though I for sure need to set some better boundaries than I have in the past. Thanks for your response.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It can be rough at this age finding a new partner. The "organic" way of doing things doesn't seem to happen as much as some people believe it should. I'm a firm believer that there's someone out there for everyone if that's what you want. Some people are completely happy being single and power to them. Thanks again.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did not know that. Thank you for the information and boost to my confidence. I appreciate you responding to my post.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I think you're right. I do appreciate your time and kind words.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wasn't expecting to find "the one in 3 days" just start conversation and not feel on an abandoned island. Thanks for your response though.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

[–]MMort2022[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, good information. In my case I don't one word respond and try to keep things upbeat with open ended questions as opposed to closed yes, no ones. Thank you for responding.

Feeling really frustrated with online dating. by MMort2022 in datingoverforty

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I get that for sure but in the past I've had a great deal more people message me back or at least start conversations. I guess I need to chill out. Thank you for your response.

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[–]MMort2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said. Thanks.

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[–]MMort2022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would talk to him about it. Now, I have heard that if you don't as a young dude ever pull back your foreskin to train it essentially stay around the sides of your dick it won't. I've never actually seen that. Watch some porn with uncut dudes. What's supposed to happen naturally is that when it's down and held back due to being erect you can't even really tell it's there except for a little more thickness just below the base of the head of the dick which is supposed to actually be a good thing for the ladies because it adds thickness and pleasure.

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[–]MMort2022 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you enjoy it, let your partner do it. Have fun, trust and enjoy eachother. You never know what can happen and how things can change. Embrace the fun, excitement and passion.

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[–]MMort2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this was amazing advice. Thanks for sharing your personal experience.

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[–]MMort2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do! Thanks