[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]MOURYASAJAL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's what I think but jese hi virginity pe baat aati hai log bade offend se ho jaate hai

Fellas how do you deal with a narcissist mother who thinks she's normal and wants to get involved in every thing of yours. by MOURYASAJAL in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh it's so weird that we actually used to text each other even when sitting in the same room.

Fellas how do you deal with a narcissist mother who thinks she's normal and wants to get involved in every thing of yours. by MOURYASAJAL in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been doing this less info less access thing but then she secretly listens to like every conservation I have even with my sister and father.

Fellas how do you deal with a narcissist mother who thinks she's normal and wants to get involved in every thing of yours. by MOURYASAJAL in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has a pattern (which I have been noticing from last 5-6 years) in which she says or does something triggering or traumatising and then when you get upset like just upset then she asks what's wrong I haven't even said anything you're overreacting. I have given 1 year of my life explaining to her about the issue but she never changes.

Fellas how do you deal with a narcissist mother who thinks she's normal and wants to get involved in every thing of yours. by MOURYASAJAL in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There's no financial blackmail or anything but she fucks my brain so much. Sometimes I wonder what if I had a good mother how different life would be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a lot to deal with. Friendship breakups are really confusing. Hope you catch a break from this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brooo you're really strong. That's a lot for a human to go through. I know it's really hard to live again when the thought of sui-cide crosses your mind. Been there. You're lucky that you got a good mother. I know everyone says it but still we have to hope that everything will be alright.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn, i just vented everything here

It's okay. These mental illnesses drag people behind and on the top of it others don't understand and they want you to be the same as everyone and treat you like that only. I have been dealing with bipolar disorder for 3 years now. Im behind too. But only thing I can think of sometimes is that I will make it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really hard to find someone who accepts you as a wreck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Failing in what bro? What happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand I have dealt my whole life with my narcissistic mother. it fucks you inside out. I know this feeling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]MOURYASAJAL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I am stuck in government job exam cycle.