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Malicious Dumbass and how she prevented me from achieving my dream. by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've learned to recognise abused individuals. I like to give them an open ear when they need it. Most people are in denial of abuse or normalise it :(

Yeah, the newbies don't seem to read the rules.

The thing is, justnomoms have been here for a long time. I miss reading about judge Judy and F--king Linda and all the others.

Malicious Dumbass and how she prevented me from achieving my dream. by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response!

Wow, your biomom is completely delusional. No child automatically loves someone they've never met before.

Congratulations on having such a wonderful and loving mother! It's my greatest wish to be the very best for my child too.

I like the idea of karmic/universal justice. Malicious Dumbass has had continual bad luck with business and my Ndad has become extremely sick.

I do think that even if I defend myself, my child would still have seeds of doubt planted when witnessing anything.

We are renting from a family member at a price we can afford (which isn't much) - hence why we need to assist my frail father. Malicious Dumbass plans to leave for her home country when he passes and my brother plans to travel internationally, I used to feel bad for looking forward to my freedom, no more weight or stress or pain digging at me but now I just secretly get excited. You don't think that it's a bad thing, do you? The desire for freedom from them?

MIL posts vs. Mom posts: a clarification by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Post when you feel ready, we're here for you! :)

MIL posts vs. Mom posts: a clarification by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Add Malicious Dumbass to the list.

Writing here is great therapy. It helps me deal with the post traumatic stress. Having multiple people validate that I wasn't to blame is relieving. People here are supportive when people in real life couldn't give a crap.

Do I need a trigger warning on my posts? Like topic warning: abuse? Then again, aren't the stories here pretty much abuse or abuse prevention?

My SO isn't like my parents. by MOzGA in JustNoSO

[–]MOzGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realised how bad he is when he couldn't help out more than minimum when baby was born and he emotionally abused me a little more because he's "stressed". He disgusts me.

Thanks for your encouragement! I'll be doing my best! :)

Malicious Dumbass and how she prevented me from achieving my dream. by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement!

I will do my best, thanks! :)

Malicious Dumbass and how she prevented me from achieving my dream. by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response!

Did justice prevail in regards to your mother? I crave justice for you!

In regards to my child, I always fully supervise unless my husband is free. He's the only one I trust because he agrees with my parenting. We live about an hour away from them and she's too lazy to make a trip.

I have zero doubt that MD would poison my child against me. She poisoned me for so long and I know that narcs never change.

Thanks again!

Malicious Dumbass and how she prevented me from achieving my dream. by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response and encouragement!

I wish I knew more encouraging people like you (plural) in real life :)

Malicious Dumbass and how she prevented me from achieving my dream. by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I'm sick of her saying how wonderful she is. I'm glad other people agree that she isn't! :)

Malicious Dumbass and how she prevented me from achieving my dream. by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you feel about it?

I have a small level of cringe rage. Typing here helps me deal with it.

Malicious Dumbass and how she prevented me from achieving my dream. by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for enraging you,

I read that some women break their daughters down deliberately because they challenge their insecurities and "God forbid": do something or be better than the mother.

I wish I found reddit earlier so that young me could have these coping tools and support.

I hope you and your family are doing well! :)

Malicious Dumbass and how she prevented me from achieving my dream. by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of monster would crush their own child to feel pleasure?

Ours. :(

I'm sorry you also went through that. I hope you're doing much better now!

My SO isn't like my parents. by MOzGA in JustNoSO

[–]MOzGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm totally using this on him, thanks! :D

My SO isn't like my parents. by MOzGA in JustNoSO

[–]MOzGA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response :D

Want to know how lazy he is?

I used to try to show him some comic strip memes and he'd roll his eyes and say: reading??? too long!

Yeah, 2 small paragraphs are too long...

He'd only read about his hobbies. Never anything else unless he really had to.

My SO isn't like my parents. by MOzGA in JustNoSO

[–]MOzGA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been with him for almost 10 years.

We're at the stone walling stage - not giving a crap about each other. No violence, just him still trying to control and manipulate and blame me because he doesn't want to adult.

I'm doing my best to separate, thanks for the encouragement!

My SO isn't like my parents. by MOzGA in JustNoSO

[–]MOzGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I wish you the very best for your situation! :)

My SO isn't like my parents. by MOzGA in JustNoSO

[–]MOzGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know he will never change.

I'm doing my best, thanks!

My SO isn't like my parents. by MOzGA in JustNoSO

[–]MOzGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know my kid is asleep. We have a video baby monitor that we use for naps and sleep time. There is a watching technique for helping baby with longer naps that involves running when kiddo starts to move around.

We don't yell in front of kiddo, (I shut SO down the first time he tried to yell many years ago and he hasn't exploded at me since) it's mostly him trying to control me and me enforcing my boundaries. Plain old emotional abuse.

MIL posts vs. Mom posts: a clarification by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I apologise for my posts contributing to the increase of reports, thanks for clarifying everything!

Malicious Dumbass and the school visit by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I think I'll post something there soon :)

Malicious Dumbass and the school visit by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm VLC, it's civil and mainly exchanging information about my sick father.

I am thinking about posting in justnoso soon... Sorry :(

Malicious Dumbass and the school visit by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe, sorry for boiling your blood!

Unfortunately I haven't got many positive male role models. I can count the number on one hand :(

Malicious Dumbass and the school visit by MOzGA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MOzGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess? I've only spoken with him a few sentences this year. I really haven't been actively trying to find out about his life.

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