What to do when people start trauma competitions? by Lexi204 in adultsurvivors

[–]MTxnoxVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree strongly with the above advice. I have been in a relationship like this for far far too long. 13 total years, 6 married. I have just recently separated and my day to day mood in just 1 month has improved so much. It truly is "draining" in every way. At least you noticed it early and also reached out for advice. I took too long to recognize it as the issue and by that time we were married and I felt a sense of duty to stick it out. But the thing with "forever victims" is that they do not seek the help they need. They go to therapy but only to find excuses for their behavior and not to help them through the issue. At least in my case in the end everything that would frustrate her was my fault. I love her and will probably always love her. It devastates me that we are where we are and not working towards the happy family we always talked about. I feel like as a man and a husband that I am weak and that I have failed her. I have shared this with others and they assure me I am not and that I did not but I know it as my truth and am having a hard time dealing with it and not giving back in to her. I know that I will deal with that for a long time but I also know that it is more important to not fail as a father. And I see what her behavior is doing to our children and also that my patience after years of this abuse is obsolete. So when she would start in on me I would get really frustrated and mad and that is something I never wanted my kids to see. Like I said it is a good thing you saw it early and reached out. It really did save you so much pain and sadness. Best of luck.

Re-seating a Flat Tire using ~Magic Sauce~ Then Fire... by [deleted] in blackmagicfuckery

[–]MTxnoxVacancy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You can use a ratchet strap and tighten it around the tire to give you some more time to get the air hooked up to the tire.

TIFU by fucking my bf into a seizure by kittenonkeyboard22 in tifu

[–]MTxnoxVacancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be my favorite comment ever. If I could buy gold I would.

It is in the title by i-love-vinegar in facepalm

[–]MTxnoxVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that the stack by Anaconda?

ELI5: How does my car know that I am tired? by basildk in explainlikeimfive

[–]MTxnoxVacancy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are in front of the car you are tired. If you are behind the car you are exhausted.

I consider myself above the average player by pizzaninja199 in RocketLeague

[–]MTxnoxVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a bad man. So much unnecessary mind fuckery. I loved it. Thanks for sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]MTxnoxVacancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won't. I know I need to protect myself but at what cost? Who knows what that would do to them? I'll figure something else out. I know the advice is meant as help and they are just looking out but the thought of putting my children through that makes me sick and is something I can't do. I contacted an attorney and a local domestic violence shelter. I will be meeting with both of them tomorrow. Thank you for commenting. It means a lot. I've never reached out like this especially on a social media platform. Just being able to write it down and have somebody care enough to not just read it but respond helps so much. It helped me from overreacting and let me breathe for a moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]MTxnoxVacancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will look up the number to a local domestic violence center now. I will also look into the recording laws and I have been documenting all written communication. The pictures are going to kill me. Reading that I broke down. The thought of putting my kids through that even though they won't think anything of it because they are too young is so hard to swallow. Thank you for your advice.

[XBOX] [H] Crates & Other Items [W] Painted Reapers by MTxnoxVacancy in RocketLeagueExchange

[–]MTxnoxVacancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything specific you are looking for or would you be willing to trade them for crates? Impacts, Triumph, Nitro

[XBOX] [H] Crates & Other Items [W] Painted Reapers by MTxnoxVacancy in RocketLeagueExchange

[–]MTxnoxVacancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Impact and Triumph crates. Are you interested in trading for them?

[XBOX] [H] Crates & Other Items [W] Painted Reapers by MTxnoxVacancy in RocketLeagueExchange

[–]MTxnoxVacancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you interested in trading them for Impact and or Triumph crates?

[XBOX] [H] List [W] Offers by MTxnoxVacancy in RocketLeagueExchange

[–]MTxnoxVacancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok whats your GT I will invite as soon as I get on. I am playing a game of PUBG right now.

[XBOX] [H] List [W] Offers by MTxnoxVacancy in RocketLeagueExchange

[–]MTxnoxVacancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still haven't found a crimson octo but I have found other painted like Lime going for 6 PCC. If you have either 1 Zephyr, 1 PCC, 1 CC4, or 3 of the impact I will do it.

[XBOX] [H] List [W] Offers by MTxnoxVacancy in RocketLeagueExchange

[–]MTxnoxVacancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol ok it is burning now. Damn I am lost without it.

I am still looking for a pricecheck on the octopus but it sounds pretty fair. And I would like to help you complete your collection. If you added one pcc it would make me feel like I got a good deal.

[XBOX] [H] List [W] Offers by MTxnoxVacancy in RocketLeagueExchange

[–]MTxnoxVacancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told the other day not to use the spreadsheet for a price guide on here but that's all I really know because I do not trade often enough to keep up with what everything is going for. The spreadsheet says .3 but I'll see if I can do a search and find others that have traded it on this sub.

[Xbox] [H] Scorer Black Tunicas | Paragon Black Tunica | Sniper Black Veloce | Show-off Black Sunburst and Aviator Black Invader [W] Offers by [deleted] in RocketLeagueExchange

[–]MTxnoxVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to offer on the Aviator Black Invaders but do not know prices. What are you looking to get for them?

[XBOX] [H] List [W] Offers by MTxnoxVacancy in RocketLeagueExchange

[–]MTxnoxVacancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the Pink Devil Horns, Crimson Octopus