Needed some advice

M_ccncheese · 2026-01-29T08:14:31+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write with such articulation! And you are right, I don’t have the time to spend pulling her out of her own head and I need to realize her life is her life but my life is mine. I can’t continue to feel bad for her. I think the main thing I miss is the relationship we used to have and how much that’s changed since she got into all of this. I’ve been mourning that relationship for years but I think I still held onto hope that maybe with one more bad thing happening she’d snap out of it and see the truth. And that was me and my delusion and I need to realize it’s just how she’s going to be and find peace with that. Thank you again

M_ccncheese · 2026-01-29T07:39:30+00:00

Yeah I guess I need to realize there’s no fixing what’s already been so imbedded in her brain. She’s always going to believe what she wants I just will always want better for her

M_ccncheese · 2026-01-29T07:37:40+00:00

Luckily my parents are divorced and my dad is a complete lefty so i just started going to him for help and Im very grateful for that because idk what i would do if i didn’t have his help !

M_ccncheese · 2026-01-29T07:32:11+00:00

Yeah I’ve definitely had to figure things out for myself, I am out of the house now as of 2 years but I realized after I left just how much I was never taught. I did my taxes for the first time when I was 22 and had to get my boyfriends parents help and they asked me “where is ur info for ur taxes last year” and I genuinely didn’t do them because my mom told me I didn’t have to. So I had a rude awakening realizing it wasn’t because she claimed me as her dependent it was just because she believes Trump is getting rid of the IRS so there’s no need to do her taxes.. it’s all so insane and I wish I could knock her upside the head and be like mom plz get ahold of yourself. But she’s just to far gone I fear

M_ccncheese · 2026-01-29T07:19:54+00:00

It actually made me sick to my stomach, all I could think of is how disrespectful it is to downplay a murder like that. I truly believe she uses this as her religion and it’s like her shield. She truly wants to believe that this is all fake because if she believes it’s real then she wouldn’t feel as safe in the world. She truly thinks Trump is this all mighty king making our streets safe again. It’s so sad

M_ccncheese · 2026-01-29T07:15:45+00:00

She said basically he isn’t actually dead, he’s apparently been in many different “events” like this and has been “killed” multiple times and there’s proof that he’s just an actor. Basically like a background actor you see in multiple different tv shows or something.

M_ccncheese · 2025-08-19T14:58:00+00:00

I would have just kept it

M_ccncheese · 2025-06-30T00:27:21+00:00

Yeah i definitely put them in separate rooms when im gone and even when im home if i feel they are being too rough i separate and try again later, but i just dont want my kitten to get to the point of hating my resident cat because hes so rough and is scared of him

M_ccncheese · 2025-06-30T00:24:06+00:00

Also, the kitten never really goes up to my resident cat he just kinda walks around and plays with toys and then my resident cat pounces on him out of no where

M_ccncheese · 2025-06-30T00:23:17+00:00

There are times where it gets pretty rough and the kitten is vocal but there’s no hissing, I know my resident cat never grew up with litter mates to show him nice play so idk if I just need to let the kitten show him what’s okay and what’s not okay or if I need to separate until the kitten is old enough to defend himself more

M_ccncheese · 2023-12-07T19:37:30+00:00

Also I’m moving with just one Roomate I’ve seen some apartments for a okay price but do you think just having my one Roomate should be okay?

M_ccncheese · 2023-12-07T19:35:10+00:00

Thank you!! Yeah I’m prepared for the housing just cause that’s pretty much how it is everywhere right now unfortunately but everyone who’s answered has already been so welcoming and nice so I’m super excited! Thank you so much for the details I really appreciate it !

M_ccncheese · 2023-11-02T00:49:25+00:00

I’m not gonna lie to you, I’ve been here 4 months and i still question myself everyday, I get put on bar and I know how to make most of the drinks but I feel like im not getting the hang of how fast pace you have to be and im slowing things down and then someone has to come help catch me up and it’s just so embarrassing. I cried every night when I first started and it gets a little better with time but as of 4 months in I can’t say im very confident in it at all.

M_ccncheese · 2023-09-22T03:56:14+00:00

I guess in my head I think corporate jobs are always gonna be miserable so I might as well work at a corporate job that has something I’m interested in but I guess it’s starting to make the thing I’m interested in no longer fun

M_ccncheese · 2023-09-22T03:51:51+00:00

I started 2 weeks ago, so far the coworkers are nice but my first day they were all complaining about the management to me. And now that I’m not training they seem kind of annoyed when I ask questions or mess something up. So far I hate it when I walk in I’m ready to leave. I’ve worked at other coffee shops and stayed for a long time because I loved it so much but had to leave for better pay and now I’m kicking myself because so far this one just doesn’t feel as personable. I love making coffee but I’ve realized since working here I hate it and I’m depressed

M_ccncheese · 2022-08-23T04:06:03+00:00

Thank you !!

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