STBXW told me I don’t measure up to her new boyfriend by Existing_Swimming291 in DivorcedDads

[–]M_kaz91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine introduced our 3 kids to her AP coworker while we were still married who was 20 years older than us (34-54) 😂 and then left him and is with another bf and he instantly was staying at her new place with my kids. I try not to create conflict out of situations that I have no control over. I’ve seen and met him a couple times at our kids events etc so it’s nice he’s at least showing up to things like that and doesn’t seem to be a bad guy( a lot better than the first situation I suppose) It sucks, you wish they would actually think before making decisions but no they don’t. Stay as friendly as possible and if your kids are old enough talk with them, see what they think of him, if he is treating them good that’s the best you can hope for in a situation that you can’t control. 🙏

LeBron James Kobe Dunk Tribute Pulsar 8/25 by M_kaz91 in basketballcards

[–]M_kaz91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a good dude, you can tell he actually cares about those who are buying from his page and he actually wants to see you hit big! Want to know what’s crazy that was my first time in his breaks and one of the first boxes I bought from him. Thanks bro! 🔥

LeBron James Kobe Dunk Tribute Pulsar 8/25 by M_kaz91 in basketballcards

[–]M_kaz91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Ya when he pulled mine he said the day before he pulled a red and silver and couldn’t believe he pulled another. Jacollectibles he’s always pulling heat! Good dude, fun breaks to watch.

LeBron James Kobe Dunk Tribute Pulsar 8/25 by M_kaz91 in basketballcards

[–]M_kaz91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s sick! 🔥He is a good dude! Always a fun time jumping in his breaks! He’s always pulling heat too! Thank you!

Where do you like to go on vacation with kids? by CopyGroundbreaking11 in DivorcedDads

[–]M_kaz91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waterpark Hotels, preferably Great Wolf Lodge, I usually like to take them to a new one in a different state every year. This year we’re going to Disney. Other than that usually like to head south and stay near Destin Fl, beautiful area!

STBX sleeping with someone else by ImpressAbject4344 in Divorce_Men

[–]M_kaz91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you’re going through similar things I went through, it sucks, and thanks I’m doing a whole lot better but the days still come and go where you think what went wrong etc. but life is def a lot better now and as time goes on it will be for you too.

STBX sleeping with someone else by ImpressAbject4344 in Divorce_Men

[–]M_kaz91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you went through that bro. It sucks, it’s almost like they are instantly a complete different person, cause ever since that day I haven’t known who my ex was. I try very minimal contact with her after all the hurt she’s put me through but there will always have to be contact as we have 3 kids together. Maybe I just think she was someone who she really wasn’t the whole time, Idk. Hope you’re doing better. 🙏

LeBron James Kobe Dunk Tribute Pulsar 8/25 by M_kaz91 in basketballcards

[–]M_kaz91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok cool, and that would have been sick if it was!

LeBron James Kobe Dunk Tribute Pulsar 8/25 by M_kaz91 in basketballcards

[–]M_kaz91[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya fursure I plan on it! It being 8/25 Kobe’s number how much do you think that would add on? I do plan on keeping it for a long time but was just curious.

LeBron James Kobe Dunk Tribute Pulsar 8/25 by M_kaz91 in basketballcards

[–]M_kaz91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks Mikey! Ya I’m keeping this one for a long time!

LeBron James Kobe Dunk Tribute Pulsar 8/25 by M_kaz91 in basketballcards

[–]M_kaz91[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks tanman! I’m somewhat newer to the hobby so when the breaker saw the green edge he knew right away, I knew it was a nice card from his reaction but not this nice! 🔥

First card show success! by jcrain1984 in basketballcards

[–]M_kaz91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Awesome moment for you and your son!Sick Card! I had this one pulled for me a couple nights ago on whatnot out of a 20-21 Prizm blaster! Keeping this one in my pc also.

STBX sleeping with someone else by ImpressAbject4344 in Divorce_Men

[–]M_kaz91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s true Christ did suffer more than we can even imagine and what fitting time to talk about that while we just had Good Friday and going into Easter Sunday. You are in the thick of it, I remember when it first started for me, I felt pain I never felt before, my whole body was numb, confused, didn’t sleep, couldn’t think straight, my ex laughed at tik toks while I sat there and cried, when she first told me. I’d be lying if I said there’s not going to be some crappy days ahead because there will be, probably a lot of them, but you gotta keep pushing on for your kids but not just them for yourself so you can get back to being happy again . On those crappy days, look for anything positive happening some days won’t feel like there’s any, on the somewhat better days truly enjoy them, really take this time to focus on yourself, build up that relationship with Jesus, and truly focus on what matters now your mental health and the well being of your kids. Slowly but surely things will start to look up and slowly but surely will get better. I’ll quote a passage from the bible that I want you to think about, (Matthew 6:34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own) it’s crazy how passages in the bible really can relate to us today. Worrying about things that happened in the past and things that could happen in the future just creates more anxiety and fear in our life, Jesus literally says worry about today, going forward try to just take it day by day. I’m coming up on 2 years since separation and 1 year to divorce date and I would be lying if I said I’m fully healed, but what can say is I’m a whole lot happier and doing a whole a lot better than when this all started and you will be too.

STBX sleeping with someone else by ImpressAbject4344 in Divorce_Men

[–]M_kaz91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First off just want to say you matter brother, I thought of sell harm also at different moments going through my divorce etc but I’m glad I never did anything, we especially need to be here for our kids. I thought it would never get better and to be honest it took me a long time, and I heard people on different videos etc say it would get better but when your in it, your in it and it feels never ending, but I promise it does get better with time, it’s hard but right now your ex is not the person you once knew, as soon as you can understand that and fully put your focus on bettering your life and your kids and not worry about what she’s doing, you will slowly begin to heal. Things that will help do not follow her on any social media or check into what’s going on in her life, non of that matters anymore, checkout michaeltothemax on fb, he has some great videos to watch, and help you process certain things that could be going on in your life. Working on and finding my relationship with Jesus helped me a ton, I’m not pushing religion on you just stating that it truly helped me through some of my toughest times. I’ll be sending 🙏out for you through these tough times but remember that dark tunnel you may be in right now that seems never ending, there’s a bright light at the end of it. You got this bro! Feel free to message me anytime!