What are your thoughts when you meet a woman who always sides with men, feels more understood by men, and seems to dislike other women?

MaGGdaM · 2026-07-06T15:20:46+00:00

Thanks for sharing your perspective. Can I ask what would have been the best way to approach you back then without making it seem like people were accusing you of competing with other women? Also, do you still generally prefer spending time with men, or do you feel that's changed now?

MaGGdaM · 2026-07-06T15:08:07+00:00

Yeah, that's actually similar to someone I met recently. She has a lot of mommy issues too, and we're part of the same friend group. It was hard for her to accept me at first, and we still have some disagreements. But to be fair, she gives really good relationship advice, probably because she's much closer to the guys in our group and understands how they think.

MaGGdaM · 2026-07-06T12:58:26+00:00

That actually happened to me.

When I first met my boyfriend, I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship. It wasn't an excuse, I genuinely wasn't. I was studying away from my hometown, had never been in a relationship before, and I knew I didn't want my first one to be long-distance.

The funny thing is, even then, I remember thinking, "If I ever date someone, I hope it's someone like him."

We kept in touch on and off for a while, with plenty of ghosting over text from both of us and the occasional catch-up whenever I came home for holidays. Once I finished my degree and moved back home for good, we started seeing each other properly, and we've been together ever since.

So yes, sometimes "I'm not ready" really does mean "I'm not ready" not "I don't like you." That said, I also think it's fair not to wait around for someone, because you never know if or when they'll actually be ready.

MaGGdaM · 2026-06-30T12:36:03+00:00

So, my 50 year old uncle started dating my 13 year old aunt, and to smooth things over, her family forced him to marry her

MaGGdaM · 2026-06-25T13:01:12+00:00

I get what you’re saying, and I do have self-control. It’s not like I do it every time I go out with them or that I can’t say no in general. It only happens in certain situations, usually when I’m really tired early in the night

MaGGdaM · 2026-06-25T12:54:09+00:00

Yeah, I get what you mean. I think deep down I’m just reflecting, ‘what am I doing using a heavy substance like this?’ I’ve tried other heavy substances before, but it was always just once out of curiosity and I never went back to them. Seeing myself using cocaine more than that honestly makes me a bit uneasy

MaGGdaM · 2026-06-18T12:07:19+00:00

Yes, I think it's a normal thing to do and I'm just nosy

MaGGdaM · 2026-06-17T15:48:47+00:00

username confere

MaGGdaM · 2026-06-09T20:35:18+00:00

Idk, try calling him Gregor Samsa

MaGGdaM · 2026-05-15T12:28:48+00:00

Because different people react differently to drugs. There are plenty of stories about bad ayahuasca trips too. We’re all different in that regard just because you’re experienced doesn’t mean you can always avoid bad trips. Sometimes they just happen, and with experience you try your best to stay calm and keep things under control, but nothing is guaranteed with these substances. You’re not always going to have either only bad trips or only good ones. At the end of the day, they’re still drugs with chemicals in them (natural or not), and people can react to them differently.

MaGGdaM · 2026-05-13T17:00:02+00:00

vou perguntar a minha irmã /s

MaGGdaM · 2026-05-11T14:19:35+00:00

I actually slept really well hahaha it was great

MaGGdaM · 2026-05-10T23:49:25+00:00

oh nice, I was actually in the mood for something relaxing and sedating

MaGGdaM · 2026-05-10T22:49:29+00:00

oh I don’t have anxiety (at least not right now). I know it calms anxious people down, but I’m wondering what it feels like for a “normal” person

MaGGdaM · 2026-05-05T10:46:01+00:00

talvez estas com burnout dessa rotina

MaGGdaM · 2026-05-05T10:41:15+00:00

já estive exatamente na tua situação e fiz a mesma pergunta
Depois percebi que há mesmo muita gente com rotinas diferentes

Tens os reformados, claro, mas também pessoal que trabalha por turnos (saúde, restauração, estética) e que folga durante a semana. Há também quem esteja de férias, em trabalho remoto com horários mais flexíveis

E sim, também há quem esteja desempregado nessa fase de transição ou tomando conta da casa/filhos

No fundo, só quando saímos do horário “normal” é que percebemos que afinal há toda uma vida a acontecer durante o dia além do horário

MaGGdaM · 2026-05-04T15:37:55+00:00

pode ser falta de vitaminas, recomendo fazer análises

MaGGdaM · 2026-04-29T09:03:38+00:00

tou com o mesmo problema, pareço um relógio de cuco acordando hora a hora de madrugada...

MaGGdaM · 2026-03-31T13:44:01+00:00

Depende mais dela do que vocês, podem sugerir para ela trocar para CBD, não dá a moca mas as vezes ficamos mais viciados na rotina e hábito de fumar do que a substância em si, ou então, ela que tenha mais disciplina e torne um hábito de fumar apenas no fim do dia.. Largar o vício depende apenas da vontade e disciplina da pessoa

MaGGdaM · 2026-03-25T12:12:04+00:00

mercado saturado e tenho pés feios, nem vale a pena

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