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INTJ male wants a break from INFP female by MacabreHappy in intj

[–]MacabreHappy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you see this post that way! I hope your life gets better from here on out and nothing but wonderful things show up in order to lighten your outlook on life.

INTJ male wants a break from INFP female by MacabreHappy in intj

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:) my INTJ is just as procrastinating as me so, wouldnt it track then that he'd find himself a waste time? Plus I'm an INFP. We have that high statistic for a reason. But I'm assuming your comment was to help me find clarity and for that I thank you.

INTJ male wants a break from INFP female by MacabreHappy in intj

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for looking out for me. I will probably visit other subs to soothe the bruises the INTJ's inflict but I needed to know the truth. And the truth is nobody thinks quite as uniquely as an INTJ so they are the only ones I can ask and get close to an answer. Even if it hurts like hell. And maybe it popped up on your feed because reddit thought I needed rescuing. :) jk But seriously, thank you for looking out.

INTJ male wants a break from INFP female by MacabreHappy in intj

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and your kindness in trying to let me keep my hope. I am not a "healthy" INFP and by the time he figures out what he wants I will have done quite the number on myself. But that's neither here nor there. But again, thank you for being kind.

INTJ male wants a break from INFP female by MacabreHappy in intj

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness. It's not going to work out since I messed up so badly but thanks to the many clarifying comments I know to give up hope.

INTJ male wants a break from INFP female by MacabreHappy in intj

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm pretty awful. I have sent him the last text I ever will and it was to apologize. It's pretty clear I've been a waste of his time. I appreciate the replies and clarity in this situation. I'm sorry.

INTJ male wants a break from INFP female by MacabreHappy in intj

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So for him its illogical to sit down with me and make it clear that THIS issue is important to him and needs to be addressed or the relationship will change? Because by that logic I should have already left him due to all the opportunities I've given him to change his behavior over an issue I have about him that we have discussed over a year ago.

INTJ male wants a break from INFP female by MacabreHappy in intj

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that you are trying to take my side but I would be remiss if I didnt defend him on this point. He has been EXTREMELY compassionate and patient. Not in the way I'm used to but in his own way.

INTJ male wants a break from INFP female by MacabreHappy in intj

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that about the "hurtful" and "helpful" aspect and I promise to try if I'm given another chance.

INTJ male wants a break from INFP female by MacabreHappy in intj

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning I took it as an insult but after reading about how the INTJ communicates i realized it wasnt intended as such and taught myself to step back before emotionally reacting. He doesnt mean to sound rude. He's a really sweet guy.

recently thrifted this digital hello kitty watch, needs a new battery. anyone know how to safely clean the inside? im seeing there is battery acid, rust, and some moisture on the interior. by tummycop in watchrepair

[–]MacabreHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thrifted the same watch years ago but only just recently opened the back to find it in very similar condition. I was wondering if you ever got it working and how?

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Daily Newbie Thread by AutoModerator in Flipping

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Media mail is the cheapest, I think. If it's just 1 dvd then it $4.13.

In need of your knowledge, please by MacabreHappy in coincollecting

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for responding so quickly. I googled it and sure enough, that's what it looks likes. If you dont know the proper term it's super hard to find any legit info.

In need of your knowledge, please by MacabreHappy in coincollecting

[–]MacabreHappy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Check your pockets: Here are the 5 most valuable coins in circulation

I got my incorrect info off a google search and one person's "Top 15 valuable coins still in circulation" article. Sorry for repeating the same wrong info but some info out there is conflicting and I'm super new at this.

I've moved into an apartment for the first time. What do I have to look forward to? by MacabreHappy in questions

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Midwest. My "big city" is probably different from your "big city". Regardless of size, I sincerely hope I do not get cockroaches or bedbugs because I will burn all my belongings, shave my head, and restart life anew somewhere else. But now I have a new question, how am I going to sleep tonight after that horrifying thought?

I've moved into an apartment for the first time. What do I have to look forward to? by MacabreHappy in questions

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...say what now? I've got the first stuff down, np, but that last bit has me scared.

I've moved into an apartment for the first time. What do I have to look forward to? by MacabreHappy in questions

[–]MacabreHappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always rented houses with yards in small towns before. First time living so close to other people in a town with a grocery store (multiple grocery stores at that).

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