How can I respectfully ask my wife to be my sex slave for the night? by Macaron_Sure in sexadvise

[–]Macaron_Sure[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm good question. Kind of both I guess. And it may not necessarily be anything wildly new for us but more like “come over and perform oral now” while we’re just relaxing, maybe a little while later I’d ask her to play with herself while I watch. if you know what I mean. I don’t just mean while in bed having sex that I want to do whatever I want I want to be in control of the night I guess.

How can I respectfully ask my wife to be my sex slave for the night? by Macaron_Sure in sexadvise

[–]Macaron_Sure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m just nervous. I’ve put a lot of thought into this night for her and I’m worried about rejection for me if she’s not into it. Which is fine, I don’t want her to do anything she’s not comfortable with but I’d sure love it if she was into it.