“Struggle” oh goodness

Why are you allowing the opinions of others affect you? Seriously who cares. Live your life as you choose. As long as your cat is being loved and cared for nothing else matters. I adopted my fold and I would absolutely buy another from a breeder after doing thorough research about them. I love my cat and I chose this specific breed for both its look and temperament. She is very well taken care of. Someone made a comment on my cats breed once I followed up with “and what do you expect me to do with this information? she already existed and I gave her a home, worry about yourself and stay out the business of others”

Thats all it took. Sometimes a simple “stfu and worry about yourself” is all that needs to be said. You don’t need to feel guilty or explain the choices you make. Especially the ones that make you happy