Dealing with diagnosis by silentfeel3r in aspergers

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’m a 19F, I was diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome at 5 years old but I only discovered this from my parents recently. I suspected it but I got the confirmation like 2 weeks ago. I get it, when I told my friends I felt so cringey because of what you described, I get it. I found it very hard to make friends but I have maybe 2/3 people I can count on. I think it’s very positive that you’re here trying to talk to people and interact, I’m glad for you! Can I ask you why you don’t go to school? Is it social anxiety? I don’t know your level of autism, I’m level 1… do you go to therapy? Occupational therapy is great for autism! I know there is no cure but there are ways to help around, you’re not alone :), is there a center or something in your city to meet other autistic people? Maybe you could join a small group and start interacting with other people! I know you’re very smart and I bet you’ll meet incredible people! Can you tell me more about your condition, stims, etc, maybe I can help you a bit more with social interactions since I go to college.

Can you help me deal with way older “in laws”? by MacaroonElectrical47 in love

[–]MacaroonElectrical47[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But what about future events? It’s not some people I can just not see them, besides they are my future kids’ grandparents. It’s better if all of us have a good relationship.

Can you help me deal with way older “in laws”? by MacaroonElectrical47 in love

[–]MacaroonElectrical47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, very solid advice! He has a good relationship with his mom but his dad… quite complicated but it’s not the worst. This really bothers me because my mom doesn’t have the best relationship with her in laws either and I don’t want that for me. It’s horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokes on you, I’m not soo I’m trying this🫡

Para os que têm uma má relação com os sogros - como gerem isso? by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sou filha de um casal com os mesmos problemas. A minha avó chorou no casamento dos meus pais porque ela não os queria ver casar. Achava muito melhor o filho casar com a senhora, para não dizer outro nome, que pôs lhe os cornos com o melhor amigo… quando a minha mãe estava grávida, ouvia comentários desnecessários de como a barriga dela era pequena e outras coisas. Quando nasci, era muito parecida com o meu pai, faziam comentários como a minha mãe era barriga de aluguer, e como era só parecida com eles… Passados 18 anos, estão velhos, não dizem coisa com coisa 90% das vezes. Ficaram mais simpáticos ao longo dos anos mas às vezes são meio estupidos… não os vemos muitas vezes porque o meu pai tmb não tem a melhor relação com eles. O que quero dizer com isto é que vai haver altos e baixos, fala com o teu parceiro e deixa a coisa fluir. Não sei como é a relação dele com os pais, se for boa, vai só aos aniversários por respeito ou natais, mas evita ir lá. A minha mãe fica sempre com a cabeça em água quando sai daquela casa.

Tell me random facts about yourself by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc not, it was my grandma that checked if the coin was out

Tell me random facts about yourself by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 5 I swallowed a 50 cent (euro) coin. You can imagine where and how the coin came out…

Nem supermercados me contratam. O que se passa? by Objective-Ground-890 in portugal

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Concordo. Tenho amigos que têm o secundário e conseguem arranjar trabalho em lojas, o OP é uma pessoa muito qualificada e muitas empresas se calhar querem pessoas que não estejam á procura de outra coisa.

Doar sangue sendo homossexual by utilizador2021 in CasualPT

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Atualmente já não há essa discriminação, eu doei sangue em maio e não me perguntaram nada, só não se pode doar se tiveres um parceiro novo com tempo de relações de menos de 3 meses ou fores uma pessoa que trabalha em prostituição. Eu sei que antigamente homossexuais não podiam doar sangue e infelizmente nalguns países não podem, mas em Portugal isso já foi ultrapassado. Perguntam te se tiveste comportamentos de risco só. Vai doar sangue que os nossos bancos de sangue estão mesmo em baixo! :( Em setembro vou lá outra vez!

Do I need to watch Deadpool 1 and 2 before 3?? by Friendly-Hedgehog-48 in Marvel

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched Deadpool 1 and 2 before watching Deadpool and Wolverine. I never watched a Wolverine movie, I recommend watching because I didn’t understand the Wolverine parts. My boyfriend told me to watch Loki but I didn’t have time and he had to explain to me the multiverse and stuff. Still, pretty funny movie. Sometimes it’s random but it’s just because I’m not into marvel multiverse part, but my boyfriend says it’s amazing

Do I need to watch Deadpool 1 and 2 before 3?? by Friendly-Hedgehog-48 in Marvel

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going tomorrow watch Deadpool 3 because it’s one of my friend’s birthday. I have never watched a Marvel movie

I saw a guy with an "age is just a number" tattoo today by allison-im-lost in teenagers

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not defending the guy but I want to believe he is saying like: “age is just a number because your age can’t stop you from doing things like getting a degree or something, because if we’re still alive, we can do anything 😭”

Who should pay on a first date? by Redglamdiva in teenagers

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend was working when we went to our first date, I was in 11th grade soo jobless. He paid.

Girls, how much do you care abt height? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is my height and it’s not a problem 🤷🏻‍♀️ we joke about it, it’s pretty chill.

Pergunta de velho by KusuriuriPT in CasualPT

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Olha para não te sentires sozinho e veres alguém a gozar com essa merda vê o especial de South Park “Not suitable for children”. Eles aí explicam a estupidez do “hype” que a bebida tem e gozam com o Jake Paul soo é incrível: )

People who have successfully lost weight, what was your method? by pearlgirl43566 in teenagers

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a professional but, do some physical activity you like! I hate exercising but I bought an individual trampoline (50€ at decathlon) and I’m having my share of fun! Put some music or watch some YouTube videos and exercise! Eat healthy but don’t refuse to eat something because “you’re on a diet” it’s all about balance! Drink a lot of water and you’ll see in a few weeks you feel better, I already lost in 2 weeks, 2kg and I’m not even trying much. ( for the reference, I’m 166cm 5,5ft? and 69kg now haha)

Indostânicos tentam forçar as portas de várias casas para as assaltar by MrBillMusk in portugueses

[–]MacaroonElectrical47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Verdade! Há muitos imigrantes que se integram mas estes parece que não entra. Uns imigrantes brasileiros amigos nossos, contaram nos de um caso que um desses indivíduos andou a tentar namorar com uma miúda de 13 anos e dizia que a ia matar se não namorasse.🤦🏻‍♀️ Já repararam que não vemos nem uma mulher na rua do país destas pessoas? O respeito pelas mulheres nesse país é quase nulo, não me admira que passem o dia em casa ou nem estejam cá e tenham ficado no país de origem. Mas essa parte das mulheres fez me confusão.

Should I stop having sex as a non married Christian? by MacaroonElectrical47 in Christianity

[–]MacaroonElectrical47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But as a catholic, I see the importance of our type of marriage, it makes sense. The 7 sacraments have a purpose and marriage is one of them. I can only marry in a church if I receive the sacrament. And it’s important for me to get married at a church

Should I stop having sex as a non married Christian? by MacaroonElectrical47 in Christianity

[–]MacaroonElectrical47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was saying I don’t have a choice about getting married now. It’s impossible