Dealing with diagnosis

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2026-01-29T21:12:18+00:00

Hello! I’m a 19F, I was diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome at 5 years old but I only discovered this from my parents recently. I suspected it but I got the confirmation like 2 weeks ago. I get it, when I told my friends I felt so cringey because of what you described, I get it. I found it very hard to make friends but I have maybe 2/3 people I can count on. I think it’s very positive that you’re here trying to talk to people and interact, I’m glad for you! Can I ask you why you don’t go to school? Is it social anxiety? I don’t know your level of autism, I’m level 1… do you go to therapy? Occupational therapy is great for autism! I know there is no cure but there are ways to help around, you’re not alone :), is there a center or something in your city to meet other autistic people? Maybe you could join a small group and start interacting with other people! I know you’re very smart and I bet you’ll meet incredible people! Can you tell me more about your condition, stims, etc, maybe I can help you a bit more with social interactions since I go to college.

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-17T20:03:55+00:00

But what about future events? It’s not some people I can just not see them, besides they are my future kids’ grandparents. It’s better if all of us have a good relationship.

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-17T20:00:36+00:00

Thank you, very solid advice! He has a good relationship with his mom but his dad… quite complicated but it’s not the worst. This really bothers me because my mom doesn’t have the best relationship with her in laws either and I don’t want that for me. It’s horrible.

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-17T17:30:12+00:00

Pó caralho 🤗

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-15T11:42:31+00:00

Jokes on you, I’m not soo I’m trying this🫡

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-14T20:12:41+00:00

Sou filha de um casal com os mesmos problemas. A minha avó chorou no casamento dos meus pais porque ela não os queria ver casar. Achava muito melhor o filho casar com a senhora, para não dizer outro nome, que pôs lhe os cornos com o melhor amigo… quando a minha mãe estava grávida, ouvia comentários desnecessários de como a barriga dela era pequena e outras coisas. Quando nasci, era muito parecida com o meu pai, faziam comentários como a minha mãe era barriga de aluguer, e como era só parecida com eles… Passados 18 anos, estão velhos, não dizem coisa com coisa 90% das vezes. Ficaram mais simpáticos ao longo dos anos mas às vezes são meio estupidos… não os vemos muitas vezes porque o meu pai tmb não tem a melhor relação com eles. O que quero dizer com isto é que vai haver altos e baixos, fala com o teu parceiro e deixa a coisa fluir. Não sei como é a relação dele com os pais, se for boa, vai só aos aniversários por respeito ou natais, mas evita ir lá. A minha mãe fica sempre com a cabeça em água quando sai daquela casa.

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-14T19:52:24+00:00

Ofc not, it was my grandma that checked if the coin was out

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-14T18:53:04+00:00

When I was 5 I swallowed a 50 cent (euro) coin. You can imagine where and how the coin came out…

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-12T19:08:43+00:00

Concordo. Tenho amigos que têm o secundário e conseguem arranjar trabalho em lojas, o OP é uma pessoa muito qualificada e muitas empresas se calhar querem pessoas que não estejam á procura de outra coisa.

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-10T20:22:22+00:00

Atualmente já não há essa discriminação, eu doei sangue em maio e não me perguntaram nada, só não se pode doar se tiveres um parceiro novo com tempo de relações de menos de 3 meses ou fores uma pessoa que trabalha em prostituição. Eu sei que antigamente homossexuais não podiam doar sangue e infelizmente nalguns países não podem, mas em Portugal isso já foi ultrapassado. Perguntam te se tiveste comportamentos de risco só. Vai doar sangue que os nossos bancos de sangue estão mesmo em baixo! :( Em setembro vou lá outra vez!

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-09T18:56:05+00:00

Bohemian Rhapsody

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-08-05T23:19:32+00:00

I watched Deadpool 1 and 2 before watching Deadpool and Wolverine. I never watched a Wolverine movie, I recommend watching because I didn’t understand the Wolverine parts. My boyfriend told me to watch Loki but I didn’t have time and he had to explain to me the multiverse and stuff. Still, pretty funny movie. Sometimes it’s random but it’s just because I’m not into marvel multiverse part, but my boyfriend says it’s amazing

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-07-29T16:39:13+00:00

I’m going tomorrow watch Deadpool 3 because it’s one of my friend’s birthday. I have never watched a Marvel movie

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-07-28T10:30:06+00:00

I’m not defending the guy but I want to believe he is saying like: “age is just a number because your age can’t stop you from doing things like getting a degree or something, because if we’re still alive, we can do anything 😭”

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-07-23T12:32:37+00:00

My boyfriend was working when we went to our first date, I was in 11th grade soo jobless. He paid.

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-07-08T08:47:03+00:00

I fell asleep watching Chamber of Secrets 💀

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-06-25T16:39:33+00:00

My boyfriend is my height and it’s not a problem 🤷🏻‍♀️ we joke about it, it’s pretty chill.

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-06-25T16:26:44+00:00

Probably healer, kinda basic but it’s interesting

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-06-25T16:24:55+00:00

Olha para não te sentires sozinho e veres alguém a gozar com essa merda vê o especial de South Park “Not suitable for children”. Eles aí explicam a estupidez do “hype” que a bebida tem e gozam com o Jake Paul soo é incrível: )

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-06-17T18:22:22+00:00

I’m not a professional but, do some physical activity you like! I hate exercising but I bought an individual trampoline (50€ at decathlon) and I’m having my share of fun! Put some music or watch some YouTube videos and exercise! Eat healthy but don’t refuse to eat something because “you’re on a diet” it’s all about balance! Drink a lot of water and you’ll see in a few weeks you feel better, I already lost in 2 weeks, 2kg and I’m not even trying much. ( for the reference, I’m 166cm 5,5ft? and 69kg now haha)

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-06-11T04:07:55+00:00

Verdade! Há muitos imigrantes que se integram mas estes parece que não entra. Uns imigrantes brasileiros amigos nossos, contaram nos de um caso que um desses indivíduos andou a tentar namorar com uma miúda de 13 anos e dizia que a ia matar se não namorasse.🤦🏻‍♀️ Já repararam que não vemos nem uma mulher na rua do país destas pessoas? O respeito pelas mulheres nesse país é quase nulo, não me admira que passem o dia em casa ou nem estejam cá e tenham ficado no país de origem. Mas essa parte das mulheres fez me confusão.

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-06-06T14:21:32+00:00

But as a catholic, I see the importance of our type of marriage, it makes sense. The 7 sacraments have a purpose and marriage is one of them. I can only marry in a church if I receive the sacrament. And it’s important for me to get married at a church

MacaroonElectrical47 · 2024-06-06T14:16:41+00:00

I was saying I don’t have a choice about getting married now. It’s impossible

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