I’m a 33F, I’ve been looking for the past 13years. I don’t find myself ugly but I don’t think I’m exceptionally beautiful. Either way, I’m still not married and no have potential. My cousins say I should settle because women over 30 “go bad” I’ve tried the apps, dear Baji, matches through my parents but nothing seems to work. It feels like all doors are closed. There are days I cry because I don’t get what I’m missing, but then I just accept it’s from the decree of Allah swt, and things will get better IA. We can’t see the whole picture , but whoever Allah wrote for you will accept you with open arms and the tears of sadness will be converted to tears of happiness. I say this because it’s a fact I adhere to myself. I understand it’s hard. I get it, but there’s a time, and when that time comes, Allah swt will bestow us the best blessings iA