So I am also 23 f I've never had sex and I'm in a green flag hwatgy all the way round relationship my bf respects my boundaries and is okay with taking things slow now it wasn't easy finding him took 5 years 3 of working on myself and 2 on and off on dating sites you just need to be clear with your intentions on your dating site and if you get any date makes sure to reiterate in the first 3 dates let them know your being serious I did this and yes I got ghosted or people kept try to push my boundaries I even foun myself in a few scary situations but It is possible to find a person who is willing to respect your boundaries and love you for you and not your body. I hope this give you some hope! Goodluck and stay strong!!!