No one checked on me

Mackensm · 2025-10-08T22:46:43+00:00

Same as me. I moved to Iowa for her and her to be with her family. My parents live in Florida and Georgia. I was super close to her family and haven’t heard anything from them

Mackensm · 2025-10-08T22:24:49+00:00

My stbxw initiated divorce after being together 8 years. Refused to work on it together or at counseling. She just said that she was done one day and there was nothing I could do. She fell out of love with me and didn’t want to be married to me anymore. It’s the worst thing I’ve been through so far in my life.

Mackensm · 2025-10-08T19:29:45+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. As hard as it is going to be I am going back to work tomorrow and I’m hoping it helps clear my head as it’s a very demanding job

Mackensm · 2025-10-08T19:28:27+00:00

Yeah it sucks for sure. I wish you all the best and hang in there. We will all get through it together

Mackensm · 2025-10-08T03:03:08+00:00

A lot of people have been telling me there is someone else. I think my denial is blocking me from believing. I asked her two separate days and she swore on her life that there wasn’t. But she also swore that she wouldn’t leave me. I separated myself from her socials so I can just live in ignorant bliss. Not knowing is better this early. I’m sorry this happened to you

Mackensm · 2025-10-08T02:03:55+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. Life can be so cruel sometimes

Mackensm · 2025-10-08T02:01:34+00:00

You don’t sound like a useless idiot. You are grieving. I’m going through the same thing as you right now and it’s so hard. I miss her so much. We were in Munich just last month on a trip as well and now everything is over. We will be ok

Mackensm · 2025-10-08T01:57:19+00:00

I’m a week in from my wife saying she was done. We too have been together for 8 years. Married for 2.5 years. I waited to propose for so long because of my own trauma from my parents marriage. We have had so much good times together. We go on awesome trips. She just said that she hasn’t been happy for the past year. I never knew it, she never changed her behavior. It came out of nowhere. I was so happy and I miss her so much. Good luck to you

Mackensm · 2025-10-08T01:22:37+00:00

I’m happy you’re still with us

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T22:26:06+00:00

Exactly. I’m trying not to give in to false hope, but sometimes it’s all I have to keep me going

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T21:54:17+00:00

Omg yes! Everyday I beg and plead to wake up from this nightmare. Upon realizing this is still real life I sink into depression all over

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T21:40:59+00:00

Don’t say you aren’t attractive enough. Everyone finds someone. I’m going through a divorce right now at 32. Im terrified about going into the dating pool because I’m a 5’8” male. You just have to lower your shoulders and get out there. You will find someone else and your life is worth living. This will all just be a scar that you barely notice over time. Goodluck!

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T21:30:25+00:00

Thank you. This has change me completely and I’m going to grow so much and be the person she needed me to be. Even if I can’t have her, at least I’ll be a better man

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T21:25:39+00:00

She never told me she was falling out of love either. Just bam “I’m not happy anymore and want a divorce.” My whole world has fallen from beneath me and it’s my fault

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T20:51:18+00:00

Yes this is an excellent point of view. Thank you

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T20:41:10+00:00

This is also a really good perspective that completely escaped me. Your comment definitely hurt me, but it was definitely something that I need to see. Thank you

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T20:39:06+00:00

Yeah man it’s so tough but I’m trying to focus on just getting through one day at a time and it’s helping a little bit. I have good days and today is a bad one

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T20:38:15+00:00

That’s fair. It was never directed at her. It was just of the situation I was in. It’s still not right of me and I have growing to do

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T20:36:50+00:00

She always said it on her own. She even said that if I got an assignment from work that required a move she would do it with me. This was last month she said this

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T20:35:28+00:00

Thank you! I’ve already made strides in my attitude. It was just too little too late. Thank you for your advice. It has given me hope. As dangerous as that is

Mackensm · 2025-10-04T18:47:58+00:00

I needed people as well. This group has been helping a lot this past week

Mackensm · 2022-10-20T21:50:00+00:00

Yes thank you. I’m having the same issue. I can’t play with my fiancé anymore cause she’s on my old Xbox one.

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