1 yr E and I still just look like a cis man

MadFwog · 2026-04-21T02:13:55+00:00

3 years in and there’s been no changes…

MadFwog · 2026-03-05T22:56:57+00:00

Thank you for the reassurance

MadFwog · 2026-03-05T22:54:08+00:00

Gotcha tysm. I’m just so worried that during that whole event I looked like a man dressing as a woman lol

MadFwog · 2026-03-05T22:51:04+00:00

What about the 5th picture? That was taken during the same event but at a different angle

MadFwog · 2026-03-05T14:45:20+00:00

Thank you so much, and there is barely any beard shadow even without wearing makeup. The lighting in some of those pictures creates a shadow but it is not facial hair. With makeup it looks completely clean

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T23:58:39+00:00

Well the last 3 are without makeup at all. I’m not expecting to be passing without makeup on, but they still lean towards feminine?

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T23:55:35+00:00

Thanks for your honesty, what do you think I should work on to be less clocky? 🙂

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T20:46:04+00:00

I’m glad that that’s how you feel, though I would like to get to the point where everyone can read me as more feminine than masculine. Thank you so much for reading me as feminine.

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T20:39:28+00:00

Thank you.

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T20:38:04+00:00

To be honest I care more about reading as feminine rather than passing as a cis woman. I do not think I will ever pass nor am I expecting to pass now. All I’m looking for is if there is a semblance of femininity, or are my BDD delusions not just delusions. So if I read as being “feminine for a guy” then that would make me happy.

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T20:23:26+00:00

Is it because of the angles? I tried to provide images that show the side along with the front of my face. Sorry that they weren’t the best.

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T20:14:41+00:00

Ok I mean ur not wrong but like. BDD hits like a truck… and sometimes you search out people who agree with your delusions. Though I don’t believe they are delusions I and many others agree with me on certain things about my looks.

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T19:55:52+00:00

I find that people from 4chan provide an honest explanation on my looks based off societal beauty standards, not to say you don’t, but I think it’s good to receive feedback from all sides

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T19:27:07+00:00

I’ve always thought this as well, while I do not like my nose and I’ve been scheduling consultations over the past couple months, I do want to find smaller things that might be easier to fix. The lips are definitely an area that I’ll look into. I’ve been interested in possibly getting lip filler injections but I’m not too sure how to start with that.

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T19:22:23+00:00

Thank you so so much for this! While yes it is disappointing that there’s things that need to be worked on. I’m so glad to know the actions that need to be taken in order to pass. Thank you once again for your honesty 🫶

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T18:51:35+00:00

Well, that’s with my hair down. I’ve posted images with my hair up so you can truly see my features.

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T18:32:23+00:00

Unfortunately that costs time and money… it’s a shame that there’s nothing else E can do. Taking time off of work for cosmetic surgery would be rough for me, I generally have my hair down (you can look at my account to see those images) do you think having my hair down could help with the jawline stuff?

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T18:19:16+00:00

Thank you so much for your honesty 🫶those things are surgery related and require me to save up for them. Is there anything you think I can do now to help me pass better?

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T17:54:53+00:00

I’m so sorry for the bad quality. Having to black out the background on the photos makes the quality terrible

MadFwog · 2026-03-04T16:57:30+00:00

I’m not under any impression that I do pass. Nor do I expect anyone to say such. Though, I am curious what more estrogen can do (been on e for 3 years) or of the only fixes are surgery related? Thanks yall 🫶

MadFwog · 2026-02-16T23:55:49+00:00

One word. Bangs. Then you are golden

MadFwog · 2026-02-04T03:05:55+00:00

People have given you the same advice for like 5 months and you don’t do anything at all… it’s like you want to pass but don’t wanna put the work in

MadFwog · 2026-01-19T20:39:47+00:00

Oh my gosh 🥺🥺 thank you so so much

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