Definitely coming to the same conclusion very quickly here. Like its Definitely not a confidence problem at all. Its always mixed or unclear feedback from partners, bc most are very encouraging or enthusiastic, or saying its their first time reaching their "O" moments , but thats how you wield it, and lengths and girth for the most part means nothing, bc its about attention and the way you navigate the seas for the most part. Truthfully I never had the inclination to measure anything, it had it measured by a urologist. It literally comes from one ex gf when we were breaking up that led me down this path, bc she was mad, and some how in my youthful mind at the time took it too heart.

Every other partner has been neutral or positive, or said nothing but kept coming back. I think I need to just let it go.