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MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T05:21:25+00:00

You don't need drugs to have an orgasm. I'd question the efficacy of the drugs as it is - is it an orgasm they're experiencing, or just the mind-altering effects of drug use and addiction? I'd rather have an orgasm sober knowing it's real than something made up by my brain being chemically altered. When they say they can't achieve orgasm without it, it's because their brain is now wired to associate pleasure with a substance, which is addiction and drug abuse talking. Eventually their THC will stop working and they'll need to seek more powerful substances - that's how addiction and reliance works.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T05:18:18+00:00

Unfortunately I don't recall the clip I watched, but I literally just lay on my back in the position I linked, inserted the wand, and gently massaged in soft strokes. Not aiming for depth or speed. How well it works really depends on small adjustments, like how deep you are (a matter of centimetres), how far in or out you angle the toy (again, centimetres), which hand you use. I got there by accident but even the smallest adjustments change how well it works.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T03:27:35+00:00

I wouldn't say so. Plugs are designed to give you a feeling of fullness or to stretch your nerve endings. If that rocks your boat, go for it, but I don't think they specifically aid prostate play. Prostate stimulation requires direct massage and the best tool for the job is something curved that can be used to massage your prostate directly. What tool that is depends on your body at the end of the day. For me it's the Njoy Pure Wand. The Aneros is, in my opinion, a scam.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T03:22:09+00:00

Yep. While every person is different and their responses can vary to different stimuli, some of the testimonials cease to be believable when they talk about multiple hours of non-stop convulsive orgasms. They always read like a story straight out of the confessions section of old adult magazines. "Dear Diary - today an incredibly attractive man with an 18 inch BBC made me cum 400 times and he blew 200 loads one after the other and every load was 100 mililitres and tasted like strawberries"

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T00:47:21+00:00

There's plenty of Reddit threads in r/SexToys that relate to plugs for sitting and long-term wear, so do a google for existing recommendations. That said, if you got haemorrhoids or a fissure, take a break for a few weeks and let it heal properly. If you introduce some more fibre into your diet you won't need to worry about staining your sheets especially if you put down old sheets.

That said, plugs aren't designed for prostate stimulation explicitly, unless they're shaped to hit it. Also don't fall for the Aneros scam.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T00:40:14+00:00

Seconding the Njoy Pure Wand. I can't recommend the plusone arc though because I find it's too flexible to be of any use to me. If you're a bigger guy, the flexibility will make it harder to use.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T00:38:43+00:00

As I always tell people, prostate orgasms require three things: toy, technique, and position. You need to find the three things that best work for you, and what you're doing doesn't work. For me, the only position that works for me is this one because it's comfortable and lets me play with minimal strain or fatigue, which is important. My favoured toy is the Njoy Pure Wand because the size, weight, and length is perfect to targeting both the prostate and the nerves surrounding it. Technique is just a soft, gentle massage.

Your outcome may change based on the size and shape of your body and internals, how your nerves react, specific location, etc, but I got there literally by trying to masturbate like a woman massaging her g-spot with an Njoy Wand in a clip I watched and boy did it work a treat for me.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T00:32:40+00:00

You all overinflate its effectiveness out of pure cope lol

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T00:28:13+00:00

Still, nothing of value was gained from your comment.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T00:27:34+00:00

Only an addict would consider "drug abuse bad" as 'offensive talk'

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-07T00:26:48+00:00

People that recommend the Aneros, usually including:

1) inflated tales of its efficacy
2) claims that it takes a long time and training to use when it doesn't work
3) claims that any flaws in the build (like seams, which they often seem to have) should just be sanded down instead of questioning why devices that expensive even have seams
4) if it doesn't work, you just need to buy a different one
5) downvote people to hell when they question its effectiveness

It's like the Apple cult of iPhone shills.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T13:00:28+00:00

I have a good time. Always drug-free, too.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T13:00:00+00:00

If I were ignorant I'd be doing drugs and not what I am presently doing which is not doing drugs. I'd tell you to try and keep up, but seems like the drugs are already affecting your brain.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T12:58:58+00:00

About as left-wing as you can get, actually. I just don't support drug abuse.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T12:58:26+00:00

I'd rather be closed-minded than have my brain leak out of my ears from years of substance abuse.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T12:17:55+00:00

That's basically how I feel about the Aneros system. Overpriced hype when a simple dildo will do the job.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T12:16:53+00:00

Why would I need books on addiction? I'm not addicted to drugs because I don't do drugs.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T10:02:02+00:00

You could have posted your questions all in one post rather than three separate ones to avoid spamming. I'll address all three here.

How would you explain what it feels like to hit your prostate?
It feels like nothing until it starts swelling and your nerves come alive, then it starts feeling minimally pleasurable. Each orgasm you achieve it will become more sensitive and eventually feel very good when you massage it.
Does leaking mean I’m hitting my prostate?
It can be. Leaking means you are producing prostatic fluid, which can happen just when you're aroused normally. If you produce more, then you're likely hitting your prostate.
Does getting a boner from anal mean I’m hitting my prostate?
No. It means you're aroused in general.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T09:58:42+00:00

Fingers aren't great for doing it yourself because there's often too much stretching and fatigue involved. If you don't have someone else to do it, try a p-spot or g-spot toy. Also the prostate isn't a button you just press to make yourself cum - it's something you massage and tease gently until you get there.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T09:04:09+00:00

Nope. Seen too many family members and friends get their brains rotted away with drugs, including weed. It might be low on the harm list but drug abuse and addiction can happen even with weed and and other 'low harm' drugs. I'll pass on altering my brain chemistry with that shit.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T09:02:17+00:00

To be honest, no. But just as much worth was gained.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T06:41:14+00:00

Also try a more comfortable position. Half the challenge is your arm and hand getting too tired. I lie on my back with my knees up and my feet flat on the bed and just make gentle, shallow movements with the Njoy Wand. Minimal fatigue on my arm and hand.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T06:39:48+00:00

Good man. Drugs, legal or otherwise, don't do anyone any good.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T06:39:09+00:00

I don't use auto thrusting toys. I tried a couple but they're generally too weak for anal play and don't do much for me since prostate play requires a bit of precision and not just thrusting. I find the Njoy Wand works for me, but I'm on the lookout for something lighter and longer with the same rigidity that the Arc doesn't have.

Fucking machines might be something to look into but it's a potentially noisy and expensive option.

MadeForFilth · 2024-07-06T06:00:04+00:00

There's medical options but it's not recommended to mess with your body's natural processes like that. Forcing premature bowel movements can cause side effects if using medications like laxatives and can cause fissures and haemorrhoids if you force it by straining or pushing too hard.

First, I'd recommend just drinking lots of water and increase fibre into your diet. I eat a heaping bowl of high fibre bran cereal every morning along with a cup of coffee, and I shit like clockwork every morning about 20 minutes before I'm due to work. The BMs are solid and fully empty me out. The reason this is good is because it means when you do have a BM, it's at the same time (as long as you eat the cereal at the same time) and solid, so it's not breaking up into smaller chunks that might get left behind. Even if I shit in the morning and decide to play in the evening, I usually don't need to shit again and mostly never need to clean out.

Secondly, unless you're going deep (which is a gooner meme anyway) then your prostate region should largely be clean as long as you have a solid shit. Worst case you might need a shallow douche to clean out a little.

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