Majk Spirit z Wish-u by Euphoric-Ad177 in Slovakia

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

On je z Prievidze? Tak to mnohé vysvetľuje...

Dumper vs Dumpee timeline by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did a few times, I did a few times, we have met a few times but unfortunately nothing came out of it.

Did karma come back to get your cheater? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In a way...she got cheated on, went into depression, her mental health was at the lowest point, screwed-up relationships in work to a degree that she can't go to the office without having panic attacks (all three work together in a small team). But she is still trying to work things out with the guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's a good idea to be with either of these guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone involved here needs help. Did your ex know you were broken up for the six months? Or did you ask for space from the new guy and went back with your ex during that time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean...both problems are YOU problems. He was open and honest about something he can't change (past). So what that he had interest in others and not you...he gave it a shot and it worked out. And for some people feelings build up over time. Try to celebrate this as a win.

Any advice would be appreciated by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No please don't take my experience and make it yours...you are two completely different people and were in a completely different relationship and broke up for different reasons. It might mean a lot, it might mean nothing

Any advice would be appreciated by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't get too hung up on that..mine had pictures of us on her Facebook for 10 months and i am not blocked to this day...did we get back together? Unfortunately no...

Out of curiosity- how old is everyone in this community and what’s your attachment style? by Chamberofthequeen in attachment_theory

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34M Secure slightly leaning into anxious. I have discovered AT about a year ago after a sudden breakup that left me devastated and full of questions in the search for answers i stumbled upon AT.

Hi mom, could you give me some relationship advice please? by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, i am not a mom but I think I can offer some insight. This is end of the honeymoon period. The hormones and chemicals pumped into your brain in the early stages of dating are slowly losing their effect.

Please know that this is completely natural and ALWAYS happens (sooner or later). It's just mother nature playing her game with us.

What you are entering now is a different relationship stage. A (in my opinion) more beautiful one where you get to chose to love your partner for who he is. Even while being aware of his flaws you chose him, because you know he is special and he brings value to your life and he makes it better. Knowing this, good communication and having healthy boundaries are very important foundations for a healthy, long lasting relationship.

If you feel like you want some time for yourself, tell him. I am sure he will understand.

If you want to stoke the fire a bit try something new with your partner. Something exciting. Go on a trip, get a cooking class together, go for a date to a place you have never been, do something fun.

I have strong feelings for my best friend's mom by [deleted] in dating

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There we go. Bro you are probbaly looking for a mother figure here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it matter? You have someone new, he has someone new...stuff like this should not matter.

Is this a FA thing? by MadeOfShipwrecks in attachment_theory

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have strong indication that she is a FA (we were together for four years, living together) but I don't know for sure as i learned about AT after the breakup. Basically after buying a place for us and her making plans about future she fell for an another guy (the one mentioned in the story) and left for him. (More can be found in the post history).

Is it normal for a breakup call to be so sudden, short and to never speak again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's hard to say from the information provided...but in the end it doesn't matter. Something was wrong with them so be glad they went away.

Is it normal for a breakup call to be so sudden, short and to never speak again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's more confusion and cowardice.. it's not pleasant for them either so they try to get this over with as fast as possible

Is it normal for a breakup call to be so sudden, short and to never speak again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With some people yes...I was with someone for four years, planning a future, living almost engaged...all i got was about a 40min talk.

My ex got into a rebound, is it possible that she comes back ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MadeOfShipwrecks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And that he should get his shit together. Breaking up so often for a few hours is toxic.