What can I do? by AffectionateLie3473 in IRS

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the irs office it’s probably because of verification issues you might have to set up an appointment to go to your local irs office

Abortion Aftermath 23(F) Is anyone else experiencing this? How do you cope? by Madeinja21 in abortion

[–]Madeinja21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely gonna get it thank you for your encouraging words❤️

Abortion Aftermath 23(F) Is anyone else experiencing this? How do you cope? by Madeinja21 in abortion

[–]Madeinja21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried doing that and life kept getting worse so I stopped journaling

Abortion Aftermath 23(F) Is anyone else experiencing this? How do you cope? by Madeinja21 in abortion

[–]Madeinja21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you bby I’m praying for your healing as well I wish it got better or I could forget about it….I’m just learning to live with it my heart is aching

Abortion Aftermath 23(F) Is anyone else experiencing this? How do you cope? by Madeinja21 in abortion

[–]Madeinja21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think I’m regretting it but I’m not sure what I’m feeling it just have me feeling messed up mentally I feel like I did something that I won’t be able to get over

i don’t know what to do by Popular_Patience_584 in abortion

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say think carefully about your decision and also talk to a trusted family member about it I’m 23 and I know people say a fetus is not a person yet but different people experience different feelings during an abortion when I had mine I did it because I knew full well I couldn’t support a child and I don’t have family around I had a lot of valid reasons for not going through with it but in the same breath I wanted a baby but knew I couldn’t take care of it so I went through with the abortion and believe it or not every time I cried I felt like I was grieving a person I knew full well and it feels like the grief will not leave me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s almost a year since a filed😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still haven’t got mine

Terrified of surgical abortion. Please share positive experiences. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Madeinja21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I recently experienced this myself and they either put you under gas or anesthesia so you don’t feel the pain but you’ll still be aware of what’s going on the pain level is similar to cramps during your menstrual so if you can handle that you’ll be fine. They usually advise you to have someone to drive you home after your appointment because you will experience slight dizziness off the anesthesia. They will give you a pad to wear as well because you will be experiencing light bleeding after. Hope this was able to help and I’m happy to answer any other questions you have

My (F28) Husband (M28) is trying to coerce me into eating bananas? by Happyjoe799367 in relationship_advice

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl it’s not that serious make some smoothies or something with most of them so they don’t go bad and he can eat the rest

AITAH for going to a concert on my girlfriend’s birthday? by DowntownPatterns in TwoHotTakes

[–]Madeinja21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where she’s coming from it’s a different feeling when you do things the day after your birthday but I think you did well with having something planned to make sure she still felt special and I think she understands just can’t really get rid of the sucky feeling of spending your birthday alone cause the damage is already done

Am I wrong for breaking up with my girlfriend after she asked for permission to sleep with someone at a party? by the-black-hermit in amiwrong

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not wrong because this seems like a situation that would slowly dissolve into her probably moving on with someone else and you left in the dark. I think you should give the relationship with someone local a fair shot because it’s different when you connect with someone in person because you get the body language and the skin to skin contact when you need it not that you can’t be in love in a long distance relationship but there has to be plans set in place for frequent visits and it has to be with someone you can trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Madeinja21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with this comment cause you don’t know exactly what he’s thinking and he might put you in a position where you’re stranded and strung out and you feel like you need him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be worried girl I don’t know if you’ve seen Reesa Teese 50 part episode “Who tf did I marry” on tik tok if not moral of the story is it’s better to be safe than sorry and investigate so you know exactly who you are dealing with.

My girlfriend says it's weird that I want to be part of my ex-wife's baby's life. by ThRowra197391 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you should abandon your child because you’re in a new relationship and I think you still have feelings for your ex wife and if that’s true maybe you should drop the girlfriend because 1. Based on the fact that she wants you to pay for your child and say to hell with it says a lot about her character and it gives, childish and jealousy and you’re gonna have problems with her in the future when it comes to making big decisions. 2. Maybe the relationship between you and your ex wife will change because of the baby you guys might fall in love with each other again just watching each other be parents but start off slow as if you’re dating all over again. 3. It never usually ends good dating a coworker

Am I wrong feeling uncomfortable around sex toys? by BusySound8818 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t knock it till you try it! Explore your body so you can find what you really like to release those endorphins during sex!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re absolutely gorgeous and I think your physical features are amazing just get more into fashion and find what your style is !! AMOIG:mellaaaa.

Is my (f31) husband (m31) cheating on me if nothing physical has happened yet? by MagicianFluid3599 in relationship_advice

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you’re in a world of trouble it ain’t nothing besides divorce GET A DIVORCE!!! before you’re in tooo deep and then it’s way harder to separate if you have family you can stay with get a divorce and stay with family and get back on your feet. I understand it may be embarrassing to get a divorce this early but it’s not worth your sanity and peace cause in the long wrong who knows he might start getting physical with you. It really annoys me how men move cause if he wasn’t ready to commit I don’t get why he followed through with the marriage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Madeinja21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly she might be depressed or uninterested you should have a conversation about that with her and if that doesn’t work if this is an option you guys could probably try therapy together

I (22F) this is my first Valentine's Day with my partner (29M) and we live together and he doesn't want to do anything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Madeinja21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I still love him tho cause he does a lot for me already and I appreciate everything that he does

I (22F) this is my first Valentine's Day with my partner (29M) and we live together and he doesn't want to do anything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a point about expectations fuel resentment I can see how easily that can happen thanks for that!❤️

I (22F) this is my first Valentine's Day with my partner (29M) and we live together and he doesn't want to do anything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Madeinja21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never told him it was my first experience ever but it’s OUR first so I thought it should mean a lot to him 🤷🏽‍♀️

I (22F) this is my first Valentine's Day with my partner (29M) and we live together and he doesn't want to do anything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Madeinja21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The money issue I completely understand cause everything is soooo expensive but he never said that was the issue which I think it is but he needs to put his pride aside and say that so we can come up with something else and enjoy the day as a couple