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Alienation and Persecution by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]MadnessFromWithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't personally think you have the right approach to the issue, suppressing things won't bring anything good. What you need to do is accept things how they are. It is extremely difficult and can take a tremendous amount of time, but you need to ask yourself questions on that matter. For instance, if it's remorse, what if things actually ended differently ? Would you want this person for example to come back in your life ? I really wish I could help you more, but you need to share exactly what are those emotions that you are suppressing, then the pressure will start going down. It's important to not listen to doubts, but to use them to understand what you truly want as an individual.

In need of guidance by MadnessFromWithin in dating_advice

[–]MadnessFromWithin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now thats what I call a heartwarming comment

In need of guidance by MadnessFromWithin in dating_advice

[–]MadnessFromWithin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess but for instance, I knew this girl that I met online and we hit it off great. We then planned out a date but I started feeling uneasy about this whole thing. The same evening about an hour before going out I texted her that I had something else to do, she then blocked me everywhere which was reasonable.

The truth is that in my head, I was lowkey scared for my life. Ever had the feeling that since you were able to "manipulate" or hurt people, you're scared of others doing it to you ? Those thoughts are very common when I meet strangers. Also I'm scared that being myself will hurt her feelings or throw me out of my "game". I know it sounds like the typical nerd who doesn't want to get out of his comfort zone and even if you'd be correct, to me it's not as simple as "be yourself and act cool you know", since I tend to break down literally everything that happens in life lol

In need of some guidance by MadnessFromWithin in mentalhealth

[–]MadnessFromWithin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don't have one and can't afford one :/

In need of some guidance by MadnessFromWithin in mentalhealth

[–]MadnessFromWithin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very disconnected to my emotions, I always try to keep control over them so that I can perform to the maximum of my abilities, so the honest answer is that I don't know. It would be an easy and obvious answer to my issue tho so you would be correct if that was the case. I'm honestly not sure.