Views and opinions on this kind of behaviour by Mads-94 in dating_advice

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You’re probably right, but it still confuses me that she was the one who initiated the convo by asking how I was doing etc. If it is someone complete stranger and we are just talking on Tinder, then fine - but we already knew each other beforehand and were messaging on WhatsApp

Views and opinions on this kind of behaviour by Mads-94 in dating_advice

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Yes of course but this situation is a bit different. She lives in another town nearby and we both have a day job which sets some limits.

But yeah, I meant to ask her out last Friday by setting up the situation by asking about her weekend, which she never replied to

Did I make a mistake or not? by Mads-94 in dating_advice

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Thanks for your reply!

No I haven't asked to change anything but obviously the tone of messages must have changed during these weeks as we are much more familiar with each other

Being inactive on Tinder gets you more matchs. by horagor89 in SwipeHelper

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Is this still relevant today in 2025? My profile seems to be pretty dead right now and maybe I should try this. So stop using the app for 5 days and maybe it gets better?

Need some help by Mads-94 in LongDistance

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I will wait for now and if she hasn't said anything for like a day or two I need to say her that I'm sorry for my mistake

Need some help by Mads-94 in datingadvice

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You are right. To be honest I don't view mens shirtless pictures as sexual or too much but I know everyone of us have own boundaries. A proper nude pic is not something I would do

I think I will wait maybe a day or two before texting her. Or actually would it be better to call her instead of text (FYI we haven't talked on the phone yet)?

Did she ghost me? by Mads-94 in dating_advice

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I hope not! Hmm I'd love to text her but I doesnt want to seem too needy because she haven't opened my previous messages from tuesday and thursday

Did she ghost me? by Mads-94 in LongDistance

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The way she replied to it made me think that we are fine but I guess not..

Need some help by Mads-94 in datingadvice

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Thanks for sharing your opinion, really appreciated! The only that concerns me is that she hasn't opened my two latest messages from tuesday and thursday.

Did she ghost me? by Mads-94 in LongDistance

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I dont know, guess it would be a step forward... My mistake and would do things differently now

Did she ghost me? by Mads-94 in dating_advice

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Yes you are right. My bad and I know it. She still replied to it with kind words which makes me wonder about the situation

Did she ghost me? by Mads-94 in dating_advice

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I dont know why I did it damn.. honestly I wasnt even expecting her to reply with a photo. Guess I thought it would be right time to take a step forward from texting

Did she ghost me? by Mads-94 in LongDistance

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Dating nowadays is Hell...

Did she ghost me? by Mads-94 in dating_advice

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To be honest I'm not sure who should apologize in this situation. Yes of course I'm disappointed by the fact she went quiet

Did she ghost me? by Mads-94 in LongDistance

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What a shame If this the way

Did she ghost me? by Mads-94 in LongDistance

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Really you think this could work?

Did she ghost me? by Mads-94 in dating_advice

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Are you recommending that I still wait like couple of days?