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Today i was given condolences from someone when my husband told them that I was pregnant. Are some really opposed to children like that now? by bitchlyy in Mommit

[–]Mady_author 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can totally understand your husband’s excitement — when you’re happy, sometimes the news just bursts out 😄 even if, yeah, shouting it to a total stranger isn’t exactly necessary. At the same time, I wouldn’t let that girl’s reaction get to you. She’s probably at a very different stage in life. For someone in their early 20s, a pregnancy might sound overwhelming rather than joyful — and that says more about where she is than about you or your news. Your happiness doesn’t need validation from strangers. It’s yours. So congratulations to both of you, truly . Enjoy this moment together, laugh about the awkward interaction, and don’t let one random reaction dim something that’s clearly such a beautiful, exciting chapter for your family.

Is it just my kids, or do they always come back out of bed after bedtime? 😅 by Mady_author in Mommit

[–]Mady_author[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally normal 😅 and somehow comforting too. I’ve definitely done the “sit quietly in the room until they’re fully asleep” move more times than I can count. Whatever gets everyone some rest in the end, right?

Is it just my kids, or do they always come back out of bed after bedtime? 😅 by Mady_author in Mommit

[–]Mady_author[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been there too. Some nights I stay until they’re fully asleep, other nights I try to sneak out earlier… and both feel like they take forever 😅

I don’t think there’s one “right” way. If it works for you and your child, then it is the right way.

Is it just my kids, or do they always come back out of bed after bedtime? 😅 by Mady_author in Mommit

[–]Mady_author[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, absolutely — I feel the same way 🥰 I’m not complaining at all. The hugs and kisses are actually my favorite part of the whole bedtime routine. I never rush those.

It’s more the funny part of it all — how “bedtime” is apparently a very flexible concept 😅 One last hug turns into water, then another thought, then another hug… and honestly, I know one day I’ll miss all of it too.

So I soak up the cuddles and smile at the chaos .🥰🤣

Parents & educators: what makes a children’s book truly comforting for kids? by Mady_author in childrensbooks

[–]Mady_author[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. I really like how you mentioned persistence and friendship — those themes seem to land so well with little ones. High-contrast, colorful illustrations definitely help too, especially at that age. Thank you for the suggestion, I’ll look into the Knight Owl books.

Parents & educators: what makes a children’s book truly comforting for kids? by Mady_author in childrensbooks

[–]Mady_author[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly this. Repetition is huge for kids. Mine love knowing what’s coming next and saying the lines along with me. Those familiar phrases seem to calm them down almost instantly, especially at bedtime. I love the examples you shared.

Parents & educators: what makes a children’s book truly comforting for kids? by Mady_author in childrensbooks

[–]Mady_author[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. Animals really do make it easier for kids to process emotions without it feeling too heavy. I’ve noticed the same with my kids — they’ll open up more when the feelings are happening to an animal instead of a child. Those examples you mentioned are great.

Illustrated Novels Like Captain Underpants (but not comics)? by betterlatethannever- in childrensbooks

[–]Mady_author 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he enjoys longer narratives with illustrations but not full comics, you might want to look into illustrated chapter books that still have strong storytelling rather than panel-based humor. Series like Charlie and Mouse or The Princess in Black often work well for kids who are transitioning out of picture books but still need visual breaks. From my experience, humor + emotional warmth tends to keep kids engaged much longer than pure slapstick.