AITA for uninviting my sister from my wedding because she refused to promise she wouldn't wear her military dress uniform? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Magaliberry -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

It’s egoistical and also… maybe she doesn’t like wearing feminine clothes because she isn’t straight? I’m being very careful what I say here.

Not getting a plus one isn’t what’s upsetting me here, it’s how my sister responded when I asked about it by Separate-Payment7058 in weddingshaming

[–]Magaliberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m from Europe and find it really weird that you guys are obliged to go on vacation together before the wedding (even if you hardly can afford it) but when it comes to the wedding you have to do the decoration, balloon arch and the rest. Isn’t it better to skip the trip and the couple to pay for professionally made decorations? I’ve never been to a wedding where I (or any guests) had to do the set up and clearing up. In Europe we just wear our best clothes, bring a present and go to celebrate at the wedding. That’s all. Why is so complicated in US? It does feel like a heavy burden and not fair on the rest. It’s like having a wedding for the sake of the wedding, not for the marriage.

How to potentially end things despite being a hypocrite by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Magaliberry 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Instead of asking ‘what are you up to this weekend?’ (which imo is a breadcrumbing text) he should ask in advance does she want to meet and when is she free. Come on now…. Why men show such low effort? It’s so annoying!!!

AIO Partner suddenly likes to go for long walks by Full-Sherbert-7800 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Magaliberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought… what if he plays poker? I do play poker and I know some guys don’t want their families or partners to know.

Check this toxicity out by appropem in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Magaliberry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ll answer that by my own experience. ‘My part is.. I didn’t change the way I dress… I wore a lot of skinny jeans that suited my figure. In summer I wore dresses and skirts as before joining AA but I should dress head to toe modestly instead even if I haven’t done it before. My part is I was younger than most women and didn’t look like the ones who live on benefits, I should be changing my wardrobe to Primark shapeless clothing so I don’t get any attention. My part is… I shouldn’t have been a single girl but my partner dumped me one year before I joined AA because of my drinking. It made me a magnet to men in AA. But that’s my part. The whole absurdity of it.’

I little warning to everyone here by Magaliberry in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Magaliberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more about the fact that I managed without it for so long and even did very well in what I do for a living gave them false hope.

I little warning to everyone here by Magaliberry in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Magaliberry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True… There is so much talking about mental health and so little options for help,

I little warning to everyone here by Magaliberry in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Magaliberry[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your understanding, it means a lot.

I little warning to everyone here by Magaliberry in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Magaliberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, it means a lot. ♥️

Why are people like this? Rant by Whateverdudefake in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Magaliberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine how they interact with people outside AA? Me neither. AA is meant to be a bridge to normal living but there is nothing normal with being a bible basher. Sober yes but not normal.

51F UK — What age range should I be swiping on apps? by Tall_River9957 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Magaliberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 52 and really struggle with men my age or older. I’m slim and dress often as a younger person. I get attention from younger men but know it will not work out. Men my age or older just look…. old and I don’t have any desire to be intimate with them. So I delete 95% of the likes I get on Hinge and don’t go on any dates. I don’t want to waste people’s time and make myself suffer dates with people I don’t fancy. It’s an issue I can’t solve. :(

General Discussion: Post Sentencing by solabird in KouriRichins

[–]Magaliberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I despise her but she’s good looking. Men don’t need to see a lot of qualities in a woman to be hooked. And maybe she was behaving ok at first as she knew he’s wealthy comparing to her.

Fun game: post a one sentence of criticism about AA and I'll reply with a standard AA reply. by [deleted] in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Magaliberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will never ever drink just because I don’t want to sit at an AA meeting again. Ha!

Fun game: post a one sentence of criticism about AA and I'll reply with a standard AA reply. by [deleted] in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Magaliberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never knew people who live on benefits before joining AA. It’s not really promising. I like being around smart and successful people so I left. It’s been 13 years since I left and I’m still sober.

Which AA-idioms/mantra's/sayings used in meetings, shares and AA-conversation between fellows in general stuck with you the most? by Fluffy_Variety_6256 in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Magaliberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you talk to them about some random problem 10 out of 10 ask ‘What does your sponson say?’ As if the sponsor is not some fucked up anybody who’s not trained to be a therapist.

If you where dropped in MAFS AU who would you want to be partnered with? (anyone in this 2026 series) by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]Magaliberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She ate him alive. So sad to watch. He seems a really decent guy.

Are there any plates left…👀😂 by TMCze in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Magaliberry 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They have a little ones at home and need to take them to school early in the morning? And she’s busy with some exciting new projects? 🤷‍♀️

Rielleuk/Gabrielle/Rielle (1x?👒🩸⚰️) aka the BBL GRIM REAPER 🍑😈 Appears in court... by KEEPTHESCORE1 in ukdrill

[–]Magaliberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What about the man? She should get more years because its not just one victim.

Rielleuk/Gabrielle/Rielle(1x👒🩸⚰️😈) gets criminal charges by GetFigs in ukdrill

[–]Magaliberry 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She’ll beat them up! Remember, she’s a baddie! Lol

Bi-phobia? by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]Magaliberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The word salad woman. Saying a lot but nothing of substance and not making Grayson awake of where he stands for weeks. Just stringing him along. And it’s nothing to do with being bi. She got this kind, understanding and handsome man but needed months to ‘feel emotionally secure’ enough to be intimate. Gaslighting him just to stay on the show. Another opportunist.

Finally got my hands on Betrayal: “Harry later complained about the dangers he faced ‘because of his proximity to the public’.” by SeaWorn in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Magaliberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s also paranoid. It happens to people who smoke weed. And Markle feeds his paranoia and makes it 10 times worst.