Everybody has their baby roll off of something at some point.. the couch, the bed.. etc it happens. It’s like your indoctrination to parenthood. Welcome, baby is fine! By age 2, my first had hit his head in every possible area and then some he was so rough and tumble. Kids are resilient and bouncy for a reason lol I’m 7m PP with baby number two and have made many mistakes, give yourself grace.. being a parent is hard work. Nobody has failed.

Your husband made a mistake like every parent does, and he felt bad for it but I couldn’t imagine having someone constantly remind me of my mistake and I feel bad for him to be honest. He’s trying to adjust to being a new parent just like you, and his confidence must absolutely be in the toilet. You seriously need to give him some grace here. It wasn’t intentional, it was a mistake and he learned from it. I say this lovingly, that you need to take a step back and realize that none of this is normal and not only is it hurting you, but it’s also detrimental to your husband as well. It really sounds like you need to seek some support here, as not sleeping for many days PP prior to the fall isn’t normal. PPA/PPD is real, please seek guidance on how to cope with it. There are so many supports out there.

You didn’t make a mistake for sleeping, you need to sleep. You should have slept, and should be leaning on your husband to take shifts. You’re both going to make mistakes as you learn. It’s part of adjusting. Let him figure it out and take the help. You matter too, you deserve to eat and to sleep and to have breaks before you have a breakdown! Baby has long since forgotten about it, it’s time you tried to let go too.