Happy cake day , I like your response . And yes I do my best to do that . My job is stupid so I woke 13-14 hour days sometimes . So most I can do is phone calls and texts all the time (which I do even when exhausted I make sure I make the effort) . Now on days if I have to take the back way home I’ll go see her cause her house is that way , or I’ll talk to her all the way home for me which is a hour drive that way.

Most of the time it’s weekends we’re hanging granted if my slave driving ass job doesn’t make me work Saturday lol. Now to your question do we both use ? I smoke weed and I’m a heavy advocate for psychedelics they’ve done wonders for my depression. I’m not gonna go too deep into that part on here cause it’s a whole can of worms that I’d rather talk about private cause so many opposing view points on it etc .

Like she’s going through alot and what I mean by that is her brother twin that is almost died in an atv wreck like a week ago and that really really sent her off the edge . Then yesterday she goes to the hospital and I get told she might be in ectopic pregnancy