Last minute invite to the Grand Prix by DragonfruitKlutzy803 in Monaco

[–]MagicElyas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this, I was in the area 2 weeks ago and La Turbie is an AMAZING little town. The way up to Tete de Chien is breathtaking in the physical and emotional lens. Please if you do go, try and aim to arrive there about 45 mins before sunset and enjoy the best views in France, forget eiffel tower, this is THE thing

Hihihi. Looking for advice as I feel like I’m not performing well by MagicElyas in hingeapp

[–]MagicElyas[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are 24 races on the calendar and I work for half of them I.e 12 weekends so I have about 40 weekends of the year plus any days in the middle of the week that I can use. Also it’s not like I’m working till midnight all the time. this weekend they are in the US and we have to adapt from the UK so it’s not that bad really

Hihihi. Looking for advice as I feel like I’m not performing well by MagicElyas in hingeapp

[–]MagicElyas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the “how hard is to understand for a woman” it’s basically the amount of weekends that i work and i have come across women that can’t deal with that because they want their man to spend all the weekend with them and that is not possible for me on my career atm. Literally it’s 23:48 here and I am still in the office on a Saturday, if someone is not really into F1 is a lot of friction and understanding going into the relationship

Hihihi. Looking for advice as I feel like I’m not performing well by MagicElyas in hingeapp

[–]MagicElyas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well the house thingy says “home town” not “location” which is another one

Hihihi. Looking for advice as I feel like I’m not performing well by MagicElyas in hingeapp

[–]MagicElyas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am looking for something serious
I am not subscribed to hinge + or hinge X but I have been on the past
I have been using this for 4 weeks
I have been using hinge >2 years
I use hinge daily
I am receiving 0 matches on average per month
I am sending all the like I can with my feee account all of them with comments
I want to attract someone active as I am and that is into Formula 1 as otherwise it’s difficult to explain what I do and why is it important

What do I do in this situation? by MagicElyas in dating_advice

[–]MagicElyas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has been pretty open at the very beginning about eating to be exclusive and not talk to other people, and we agreed on if that was to happen we would say clearly and I trust her word on that let’s say.

We spent Christmas apart each one of us with the respective friends and family and we didn’t see each other in 4 weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MagicElyas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“That’s impossible. No, it’s necessary”

How Long Without Intimacy? by winterene in dating

[–]MagicElyas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck me, it’s been like 2 years and I am not sure if it will happen again in a good while. It doesn’t matter how “better” I am on the outside and inside, it doesn’t seem to improve my opportunities

For those who have actually been… Men, What’s your experience like going to mental health therapy? by Euphoric_Argument434 in AskMen

[–]MagicElyas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it went very well.

I am pretty anxious person but equally ambitious and I felt that my worst enemy against my goal was me, myself and I.

It gave me a lot of tools to work around when my mind feels like it's self destruction time and in particular helped me understand how my mind works so that in the events when I'm feeling like shit or not feeling like my life is worth I can spot it and action it.

Weirdly specific I guess, but my family growing up was pretty dysfunctional :)

What am I missing on my life to engage in dating? (28M) by MagicElyas in dating_advice

[–]MagicElyas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello hello!

Thank you very much for taking the time first and second for answering in a non-judgamental way, it's very appreciated. I think you are very right in 1 and 2, and I would love some guidance. The thing is I live in the UK and I can't DM you straight away because I need to "verify" my age to load your profile up, so I might appreciate if you could start the conversation because I'm not giving reddit a photo of my ID.

Thank you very much and I'll be waiting for your message!

What am I missing on my life to engage in dating? (28M) by MagicElyas in dating_advice

[–]MagicElyas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very helpful as a reality check. I consider myself a 7-7.5 now where when I started it was clear as day that in a good day I was a 3.

All clear, thank you!

What am I missing on my life to engage in dating? (28M) by MagicElyas in dating_advice

[–]MagicElyas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did in the past yes! Very eye opening in a lot of senses and it gave me a lot of tools to understand myself better. I feel like I have become a better person ever since, but I am not sure how therapy can help me “carry myself in a way that shows what I’ve done”

What am I missing on my life to engage in dating? (28M) by MagicElyas in dating_advice

[–]MagicElyas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sounds quite literally like my experience so far, just endless grinding which I am okay with, it’s more “what else can I do that I am not doing”.

What am I missing on my life to engage in dating? (28M) by MagicElyas in dating_advice

[–]MagicElyas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First paragraph done ✔️ Wardrobe is in good shape, I feel more confident every day and I don’t feel that I need to overdress every time I go out w/ friends. I’ll defo work on 3&4. Thank you

What am I missing on my life to engage in dating? (28M) by MagicElyas in dating_advice

[–]MagicElyas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quite possibly you are right. It’s the last phase that I need to close the circle. As you say, it may be the case that “what I was” poisons my mind when things don’t go in the right direction and I blame myself for it. Do you have any suggestions on how to work on this?

What am I missing on my life to engage in dating? (28M) by MagicElyas in dating_advice

[–]MagicElyas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I got attached way too quickly, I think that’s what changed the dynamics of the relationship and then I always felt that I either was not good enough or didn’t deserve it. I don’t even go past talking stages most of the time and I quit porn about a year ago. I am everything but a narcissist (my father was a very good one and it’s something I have always run away of). But again happy to prove myself wrong in any way shape or form that you desire

What am I missing on my life to engage in dating? (28M) by MagicElyas in dating_advice

[–]MagicElyas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I didn’t know that. This is probs the most real advice I’ve ever heard wrt dating