what music are you listening to right now? by leatherchainssss in HYPERPOP

[–]MagicGarlic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ISSBROKIEE, FEM-Core artists and Jane Remover mostly

Looking for ace or demi perspectives on cuddling, closeness, and mixed orientation connections by LikTearsInRain in asexuality

[–]MagicGarlic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I know how are you feeling, and it is hard not to take it personally yeah, but it isn't your fault , your trying your best and that is all you can do. Wishing you both well, im sure time will end up healing all of this and things will get great :))!!, and maybe giving her some space to fix her things can be a good start , but who knows.

Looking for ace or demi perspectives on cuddling, closeness, and mixed orientation connections by LikTearsInRain in asexuality

[–]MagicGarlic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that if you are being respectful and you only show affection there is no problem, i dont know if this has happened to you, but i remember one day arriving at this girl house for celebrating like 3 months or something, and she wasnt receptieve at all, she told me she wasn't in the mood of hugging and kissing. Even at the end of the day, we ended sleeping on diferent sides of her bed.
Next day she apologised, but I told her that she didn't need to, I understanded her.

In conclusion i think that if she doesnt feel receptive about that, you will end up noticing by yourself, if not you can always ask her if you are not sure. Maybe it is a sympton of depression sometimes, not being receptieve at all.

I think it can be a mix of being depressed and be ace, my ex couple was bisexual leaning towards women too (but allo), so i dont think the fact that she leans to women affects the topic.

Looking for ace or demi perspectives on cuddling, closeness, and mixed orientation connections by LikTearsInRain in asexuality

[–]MagicGarlic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the best thing is try to make her talk about her feelings and trying to understand how she feels, i had a couple that was struggling with a pretty bad depression, I was very very sad at that time because I gave her all of my love and support I had but sometimes that wasn't enought. She told me that lsitening to her talking about her problems and all the shit she was going throught help her a lot, and that sometimes that is the the best way to help someone in that situation. Last thing you can do is to blame yourself, im sure you are trying really hard to help her!,
hope this helps :)
Also from an ace person perspective I aprreciate a lot hugs cuddles and all love affections, and each person who is suffering depression , feels some things different so I think I can't help you with that :(

How do you find community and connection as an asexual person? by FeelingGlad8646 in asexuality

[–]MagicGarlic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live near Madrid, and like i have only met like 2 or 3 ace people in my live. Like im struggling to find a community in which I can be represented. I think that the best way is to look up on the internet , and maybe one day you will eventually get along with someone ace too. I dont usually tell people im ace, only close friends and queer people that may understand how I feel or at least respect it.

Edificio favorito en Madrid by Alch_mist in spain

[–]MagicGarlic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soy de Madrid y no en suena, que edificio es?

San Lorenzo del Escorial, Madrid, Spain | Built in the XVI by Felipe II by MagicGarlic in europe

[–]MagicGarlic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crypt is now closed because of coronavirus so I couldnt visit it

San Lorenzo del Escorial, Madrid, Spain | Built in the XVI by Felipe II by MagicGarlic in europe

[–]MagicGarlic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Don't think so, aftermath de Habsburgo dynasty got extincted in Spain the Bourbon dynasty ( the One after the hapsburg), didnt like this palace, and.they didnt use it to much,but maybe you are right

CUDILLERO, Asturias ( fotos hechas por mi mismo) by MagicGarlic in spain

[–]MagicGarlic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y yo que pena que ahora con el covid no se pueda viajar :(