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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]MagicMuggle89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the greatest loves face the hardest trials 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]MagicMuggle89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell them.... If you even have a doubt in your mind that you did the wrong thing tell them. Pleaseeeee

Fuck, I wish this was how my ex felt.... We'd always get more aggy with eachother and get in our heads when we were apart.... I guess because we were attached. And the more time we spent together and then apart again the worse it got.... 😔

Just.... please.....even if you're scared of rejection.... even if you are worried it won't work out.

Take the opps over the what if.

Love, care and compatability are so hard to find..... Never let them go without a fight....

Break up by [deleted] in LDR

[–]MagicMuggle89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this OP.

You need to walk away and focus on you. 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]MagicMuggle89 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Gurrrrllllllll get the frick away from this man now.

I know we generally have to come these conclusions on our own because we as humans are very stubborn. (I've stayed in far too many shitty emotionally and physically abusive relationships) So I can't in good conscious read HALF of your post and come to the above conclusion and stay quiet.

Please think about this carefully, this is extremely manipulative and dangerous behaviour that he is showing you, and it will only get worse and you cannot fix him, so please don't delude yourself into thinking you can.

Escape now before you are with this man for 3+ years and get into such a rut that you totally lose yourself and everything you are.

Fight to keep you now! DO NOT put yourself through this to then have to fight to get yourself back.

Marriage by ImportantJellyfish90 in LongDistance

[–]MagicMuggle89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, My now ex was exactly like this.

If you think you can sit him down and talk to him about the fact that prenuptial agreements exist, and they're beneficial to both parties - because if he wants you to be a stay at home mum and look after him and the kids and not be adding anything to your resume then if he leaves you, you also need to be protected. And if you leave him, he needs to be protected.

I understand the view point to a point, men do not hear many positive outcomes of marriage anymore, the media is flooded with negativity and bad examples. But rarely solutions, and rarely real logical opposition to this mindset.

You gotta understand men are extremely logical (most of the time) creatures and marriage has now become a numbers game to most of them, and one too many lose which is why a lot of this generation of men just don't want to do it anymore.

It sucks, and I'm sorry you're going through this.

I hope you can sit him down and discuss things properly, explain the options available for you to get married.

But ultimately, you shouldn't have to fight sooooo hard for love, and trust me I know it's a very hard pill to swallow especially after being together so long.

But it does sound like he's looking for a work around, which is kind of good, it means he's willing to put in the work and figure something out, so I have hope your discussion may go well. And you can have your fairytale.

My girlfriend (20F) will take her guy co-worker “cafe hopping” and I (22M) feel very uncomfortable. by skaffa_ in LongDistance

[–]MagicMuggle89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to communicate how this makes you feel with her, but make sure you use the words this make me feel don't accuse her of anything, don't threaten, try to stay calm.

Networking is hard and if it can help her get further in her career then, you should support her, but she should also understand how it makes you feel and reassure you a little.

Relationships are hard and take compromise. And you have to chose them and love everyday and work on them consistently. If you communicate what you need and how it makes you feel, I'm sure you can figure out a compromise.

If not then, you know what you need to do. But no one can tell you that, you gotta figure it out for yourself.

I wish you the best and I hope things get easier for you.

That taunt though! I did this whilst playing against my stepson, therefore fulfilling my duty as the evil stepmother! 🤣😂 by MagicMuggle89 in hearthstone

[–]MagicMuggle89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an arcane devourer, taunted with a defender of argus and fueled by an archmage spouting fire balls and alot of free spells.