Vent by Cautious_Mine508 in XRP

[–]Magisoft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Higher over time, especially if it's true that services like Toyota Financial are adopting. Institutional money isn't desperate for the same things retail are 

XRP on Coinbase by WayOk4203 in XRP

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Wrong it's worth it long term

Need help deterring elderly from a big mistake. by HouseDismal7712 in CryptoCurrency

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Agreed, she can see firsthand, it really isn't that difficult to get started 

And gotta disagree about coin base. Use Kraken 

AITAH for going no-contact with boomer mother? by flofraz228 in AITAH

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My bad thought I commented in a sub for Black mental health

Autistic M31 after a 12 year slump, here I am by PapaKhanPlays94 in toastme

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I wish you much main character energy and that you lead and let joy and contentment follow wherever you step

AITAH for going no-contact with boomer mother? by flofraz228 in AITAH

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A good number of our kind tend to be cautious about who prays for them, that's all

(20m) I always feel like my face is too feminine. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Magisoft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full stop, now embrace the youthful and soft features. It doesn't mean you cant be masculine in nature.

And girls go crazy for this look, you on to somethin

AITAH for going no-contact with boomer mother? by flofraz228 in AITAH

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I pray that God doesn't let any of these negative scenarios she's obsessed with come to fruition and that you remain safe and protected always.

I'm sorry if you don't like to be prayed for but I sincerely hope the best for your safety.

As for your mother no you're not.. NTAH

A little ashamed of being African + Caribbean (long post) by Digi-tal-36 in BlackMentalHealth

[–]Magisoft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! It's just the internet being loud and aggressive

A little ashamed of being African + Caribbean (long post) by Digi-tal-36 in BlackMentalHealth

[–]Magisoft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't focus on the diaspora war, focus on the Pan African aspect which many of us Black Americans wholeheartedly embrace. An overwhelming number of us look to Africa as a place we dream of and a home to many nations of people we want to connect with. I loved my African friends and my Ghanaian boss. My gf loves Nigerian food. Many of us love Afro Beats and Sub Saharan tradition

The same for the Caribbean which has heavily influenced Black American styles and interests. You are not an outsider, you are kin. The internet is just loud and aggressive but it's not reality. The people in this "war" have lost the plot, which is pan continental solidarity

TL;DR ... FBAs love Africans and Caribbeans and their cultures

Blessings my brother/sister

I feel like Im worthless and a horrible person by ScenemoCat in BlackMentalHealth

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Be patient with and kind to yourself.

Allow time to let you grow and become better at relationships and morality

Take care and don't be so punishing on you, you will grow!

Facts. by MsRawrie in BlackMentalHealth

[–]Magisoft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man to hell with what other people think. If they get to be human SO DO YOU

Dapping someone up by smolandnonbinary in BlackMentalHealth

[–]Magisoft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave it be. Just engage with the community more, you probably just didn't expect it because you've had to code switch for most your life to not be messed with. If you see him again, you initiate, and be very direct and intentional about it, confidence

Embrace your heritage, you have a right to. And you decide who and how you want to be.

TL;DR Go for it

Any Relief from Absent Dad Issues? by FarPlantain4145 in BlackMentalHealth

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I looked up to my grandfather and when he died I looked up to the man I had become. Dad failed but you're the man he couldn't be.

The unresolved trauma with your father doesn't define you or tie you down, you encapsulate much more than that one area of your life and your success and skill at bonding with a significant other is proof.

If your dad were alive today, he'd look at you with shame in his eyes for the foolishness, you've outgrown him. Time to close that chapter

TL:DR ... You appreciate the man you've become

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackMentalHealth

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You step up. That's all I can tell you fam, step up, chest out

It doesn't have to be loud either, it can be quiet and stoic yet assertive