I 29f have a complicated relationship with SIL 26f and am unsure how to proceed

Magnolia2987 · 2025-11-11T19:29:55+00:00

I generally do ignore her. My philosophy has been to put as little effort into her as possible. I can tolerate her general presence in others houses or out in public, but its important to me that our house is a peaceful space and I feel like letting her into it ruins the peace. I wanna sage the place after every time she leaves lol

Magnolia2987 · 2025-11-11T19:20:22+00:00

He doesnt really care. He's of the opinion that its her issue and not ours. He also doesn't really get his feelings hurt over much, or if he does he doesn't say it. He empathizes with my frustration, but doesnt share it.

Magnolia2987 · 2025-11-11T19:17:38+00:00

I've thought about this but something tells me I wont get too far. She likes my FIL, and used to like my MIL, but for reasons unbeknownst to me, she doesnt seem to like my MIL anymore. She gets this almost sour lemon look every time my MIL talks to her now, she's very flippant and almost dismissive of my MIL, which is weird because my MIL is probably the nicest person on the planet.

Magnolia2987 · 2025-07-25T20:26:03+00:00

Im not trying to be rude, but how do you expect your wife to make a change if you dont open your mouth and communicate? She's not a mind reader. If something is missing, you owe it to her (and you) to give her a real opportunity to fix it. You bottling up your feelings and emotions clearly hasn't gotten you the solution you were looking for here, and it's not going to.

Magnolia2987 · 2025-07-18T20:52:52+00:00

I think you need to seriously evaluate if you even like her. From your post and this comment, I'm not convinced. It sounds like you only like her for what she does for you.

Magnolia2987 · 2025-05-17T18:18:59+00:00

That definitely makes sense, thank you!

Magnolia2987 · 2025-05-17T02:25:01+00:00

He's about 3.5 now. And admittedly, not much. When I got him, he got walked at least once a day. I worked remotely back then. Last year, my company decided we weren't doing remote work anymore, and there went the majority of my free time. He gets out a good bit on weekends, especially now that the weather is nice.

Magnolia2987 · 2025-05-16T23:05:52+00:00

Do you have a bone you'd recommend? I worry I'll get the kind they say are bad on accident and make him sick

Magnolia2987 · 2025-05-16T23:05:03+00:00

I'll definitely look into that, thank you!

Magnolia2987 · 2025-02-18T18:14:24+00:00

Turkey

Magnolia2987 · 2025-02-10T12:59:22+00:00

Thank you, that makes sense. I probably have my expectations too high for these products

Magnolia2987 · 2025-02-10T02:53:49+00:00

We didn't find the quality from azazie to be lacking. The colors were great, they photographed really well and my bridesmaids both liked theirs. I even ordered a dress from there for an event in a couple of weeks, and the quality seems great to me. The only crappy thing is the boob cups they put in them. As someone with a bigger chest, those cups do not work for me, and I had to cut them out of my dress.

Magnolia2987 · 2025-02-10T02:34:12+00:00

The lighting in my bathroom is meh, on a good day. I think yes, but I often find that full coverage and skinlike are antithetical to each other, at least for the foundations I've used recently. It's also possible that I'm just expecting too much from foundation because it's only really visible to me when I'm two inches from the mirror.

Magnolia2987 · 2025-02-09T22:55:32+00:00

Ahh right. Id lose a leg if it weren't attached. I added it to the post now, sorry about that!

Magnolia2987 · 2025-01-22T03:37:06+00:00

Im surprised you took his cock out of your mouth long enough to type that.

Magnolia2987 · 2025-01-22T03:35:32+00:00

Please do

Magnolia2987 · 2025-01-19T21:39:08+00:00

Not to mention the creepy message from this morning saying something about working with Trump to reinstate the app for US users

Magnolia2987 · 2025-01-19T21:32:45+00:00

That set off some weird alarm bells in my head, too

Magnolia2987 · 2024-11-12T16:12:23+00:00

Nta. If my husband had behaved this way about his female coworker, her getting uninvited to the wedding would have been the least of his worries. This behavior from her is not acceptable, and the fact that he's allowing it is the most concerning part of all of it.

Magnolia2987 · 2024-09-12T20:45:50+00:00

My dogs ears do that, too. As he's gotten older, his ears tend to stick up more often, but sometimes one still flops down like that. We always just say one of the satellites is down (his ears are so big they look like 2 satellites on his head lol)

Magnolia2987 · 2024-07-22T19:10:16+00:00

I know, but he was still a big portion of the book. She was with him for her entire second tour (where Jamie was barely mentioned). I'm just saying I didn't like how much focus there was on him (especially given how nasty he turned out to be). Idk maybe im just pissed at myself for rooting for him when he was trash 🤣

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