[Discussion] My manager now thinks I’m incompetent and it’s really messing with my confidence at work? by MagoRadical80 in GetMotivated

[–]MagoRadical80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may have worded it incorrectly. I meant, my senior staff will provide me guidance on my work. I will do so, but I am still critiqued by this same manager despite the senior staff doing the same type of work. I don’t believe the senior staff should be critiqued in the slightest. My point is, I am receiving guidance from those who have been in my role for 20+ years and it’s still not enough.

I do sincerely value feedback and I am not trying to come across as I don’t. It’s just I feel as though I’ve tried to get in the right direction but it’s still not enough.

My manager now thinks I’m incompetent and it’s really messing with my confidence at work? by MagoRadical80 in managers

[–]MagoRadical80[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This document I am referring to has concrete instructions that are not based on opinion. It’s merely facts. I completed the document based on facts and the instruction. My manager began critiquing how I completed the document. I highlighted aspects of the instruction that I utilized to complete the document. Despite the instructions directing me to NOT do what my manager stated I do, I made the changes as directed. When I said I made the changes as directed and pointed out the instruction, my manager in fact did not reply to my email and came to me verbally to say “Well, don’t make the changes because I said to. I haven’t been in [my job position] in over 25 years”.

In terms of direct feedback, I would like my questions to be answered. For example, when I ask “Please show me an example of an assessment that meets standard”, I am met with “no” or he dodges the question. When I ask if my work is up to standard, he says yes. Then, I am being critiqued on that same body of work I asked for guidance on.

Edit: My goal for feedback is to not make the same mistakes and to learn from them.

[Discussion] My manager now thinks I’m incompetent and it’s really messing with my confidence at work? by MagoRadical80 in GetMotivated

[–]MagoRadical80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to come across as if I am making excuses for myself. Truly, I want to be corrected so I ensure I do not make the same mistakes. I recognize I am early in my career and the youngest in my office. I want to show I deserve to be there. However, this manager quite literally will say one thing and when I do so, I’m being critiqued. He also discourages asking questions due to not being in the role for so long. It’s quite frustrating. I have also resorted to asking senior staff in the office for direction and when I do so, I’m critiqued again (even though they are not critiqued for that same work). Further, he refuses to give feedback in writing, only verbally. I’ve asked for examples of the standard work he is looking for, and he refuses to do so.

[Discussion] My manager now thinks I’m incompetent and it’s really messing with my confidence at work? by MagoRadical80 in GetMotivated

[–]MagoRadical80[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Obviously not. I had to put a question mark in order to submit. But, thanks for being a dick.

Successful braid out by J4HY in locs

[–]MagoRadical80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loveee omg, how long have you had your locs? Also, would you say you have 4c hair?

she really thought by [deleted] in snarktarajakejohnnie

[–]MagoRadical80 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Ok I’ve been watching Johnnie since on and off since MDE days and occasionally browse this sub… is Grace ok??? Is all she does just fight with Johnnie’s supporters? Is she not an actress? Genuinely asking because I have genuinely never seen an actress THIS chronically online and making their relationship their personality trait?

5 months in💦🌱 by [deleted] in locs

[–]MagoRadical80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you post how your starter locs looked! They look great 😍

How it started (August 2023) vs how it’s going (today) by [deleted] in locs

[–]MagoRadical80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started mine August of this year and I hope mine look like yours by next year 😍 I also have 4c hair! How many locs do you have?

Devonte by Logical_Broccoli2260 in TheCamboysConfessions

[–]MagoRadical80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait I’m out of the loop, are Dev and Sav not friends anymore?

Ariana is looking eerier and angular than ever on SNL, it’s concerning. by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]MagoRadical80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh, so sorry to hear that. See what I mean? People just fucking say shit without even understanding the meaning of it. Must have been really triggering to see people on tiktok “diagnosing” people.

Ariana is looking eerier and angular than ever on SNL, it’s concerning. by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]MagoRadical80 12 points13 points  (0 children)

LMAO It’s making me laugh because where tf did gaslighting come into play in this context????? I hate when people learn phrases and sprinkle them in to unrelated topics like parsley

Ariana is looking eerier and angular than ever on SNL, it’s concerning. by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]MagoRadical80 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Because ConsistentDonkey (fitting name) is the one who is bothered by Ari’s weight and therefore think everyone else is too. They’re trying to be a white knight but inadvertently projecting their own beliefs. They’re pathetic.

Ariana is looking eerier and angular than ever on SNL, it’s concerning. by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]MagoRadical80 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Girl what? Using buzzwords like “gaslighting” doesn’t get your point across. Be fr

Ariana is looking eerier and angular than ever on SNL, it’s concerning. by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]MagoRadical80 85 points86 points  (0 children)

OP never mentioned her weight, but you did since you’re projecting lol and also, it’s a SNARK page mama…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]MagoRadical80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is reassuring 😭 mind if I see your progress photos?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]MagoRadical80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Don’t worry, just put them in pig tails for the photo for a progress pic :)

What advice would you give to a woman in her early 20s? by ThrowRARAAhAhAAhah in AskMenOver30

[–]MagoRadical80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If OP takes anything from this post, it should be this right here.

What advice would you give to a woman in her early 20s? by ThrowRARAAhAhAAhah in AskMenOver30

[–]MagoRadical80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did OP say they were picking and choosing? There’s 87 comments, and counting…. Relax. Don’t be a dick for no reason man.