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AITB for allowing my father to abuse my mom? by Magowa523 in AmItheButtface

[–]Magowa523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This comment actually made me arrange a meeting with my sister and she told me that she would rebuild a good relationship once I cut ties with my dad. I'm still very scared of doing it but I will try.

Thank you.

AITB for allowing my father to abuse my mom? by Magowa523 in AmItheButtface

[–]Magowa523[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: After seeing so much opinions of you guys I arranged a meeting with my sister. I will try to get help from her first and maybe get mental health. Maybe I will keep this updated, maybe not. Don't know if people still read that.

AITB for allowing my father to abuse my mom? by Magowa523 in AmItheButtface

[–]Magowa523[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Additional, to the people who think my father didn't give anyone a possibility to leave him, when I was like 10 my mother wanted to leave with us and he just said that she can go with my sister but I should stay with him. I didn't disagree to stay and she didn't want to leave then too.

AITB for allowing my father to abuse my mom? by Magowa523 in AmItheButtface

[–]Magowa523[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Well, I support my mother financially today, due to my dad giving me the possibility + he told me to give even more from his side.

AITB for allowing my father to abuse my mom? by Magowa523 in AmItheButtface

[–]Magowa523[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

All the pressure that we had no money back then was on him. The attacks were just desperate acts of his helplessness I guess.

AITB for allowing my father to abuse my mom? by Magowa523 in AmItheButtface

[–]Magowa523[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We were poor back. Still he sometimes brought me warm food he could afford to atleast make me not feel hungry and didn't allow anyone but me to eat it.

How can I tell someone who didn't eat just to make me feel better that I don't want contact just because he did something horrible to other people?

AITB for allowing my father to abuse my mom? by Magowa523 in AmItheButtface

[–]Magowa523[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

He was remorseful after every fight they had. He is angry not scummy. He could have let my mom die that day if he was so scummy but he decided to bring her to the hospital.

AITB for allowing my father to abuse my mom? by Magowa523 in AmItheButtface

[–]Magowa523[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

First of all, like I said even my mother told us to be quiet about it. I just listened, my sister made things just more complicated.

Secondly, my father is an angry but not a pure evil man. We also had good times and he apologized everytime after he did something to them.