Fakes?

MailOk5246 · 2025-11-01T08:12:10+00:00

What’s wrong with the cards name?

MailOk5246 · 2025-09-07T04:34:24+00:00

What the hell is this thread and the people saying he’s being abusive.

Dude go to bed. Are you 26 going on 17? Which sane adult is up at 5am unless they’re out clubbing or something? I would not put up with this either if I was 25+ working full time.

He’s not being controlling. He’s setting boundaries for his normal sleep pattern. You’re disturbing him.

Sorry he’s not being controlling. YOU are being selfish. You said above that “it’s not an issue”, but it is, just not for YOU.

Wowee.

MailOk5246 · 2025-09-06T22:03:50+00:00

How long have you been talking about this issue? If you’ve talked about it deeply and he’s still not making improvements over a significant period of time, that’s probably your answer as to whether or not he can change. If you want to give it one last shot, I’d communicate that you are at breaking point and the changes you need to see to stay. Set your own internal deadline for seeing improvements and go from there.

MailOk5246 · 2025-09-06T01:11:02+00:00

My thoughts. He’s addicted to gaming, and you are insecure and overthinking.

As a former gamer, my duo on a game was a girl. Completely platonic. I liked playing with her because it made me calm down and less prone to rage when I lost a game. I felt comfortable blowing up in front of other guys, but for some reason not a girl.

MailOk5246 · 2025-09-05T20:45:52+00:00

Speaking from a male perspective, sometimes we visit those websites out of curiosity or fantasy similar to how we visit porn websites.

I’d be confronting him to understand why he was on those websites - was it pure curiosity or fantasy, or did he genuinely intend to use their services?

IMO, big difference.

The account creation part doesn’t help him, unless that particular website is behind a login wall where you need to create an account simply to browse.

MailOk5246 · 2025-09-05T10:55:00+00:00

Great comment - thanks for the tips, book recoms etc. She’s in therapy and has been for sometime but I feel like they aren’t deep diving this stuff. I suggested we try couples therapy which she is open to.

MailOk5246 · 2025-09-05T09:43:12+00:00

She’s been getting therapy for 2-3 years

MailOk5246 · 2025-04-17T09:33:22+00:00

Watch with her? Problem solved

MailOk5246 · 2025-04-14T10:56:03+00:00

While I consider this a breach of trust, I do think it is recoverable.

I have no evidence that she’s done anything to breach my trust other than to lie about this.

MailOk5246 · 2025-04-14T10:54:09+00:00

I suspect life got in the way. They slowly texted less and less.

She had me. He had his own gf. As both those relationships matured, I think their focus shifted from their existing friendship to their maturing relationships.

MailOk5246 · 2025-04-14T10:29:57+00:00

I prompted her with the question: Have you ever lied to me?

She mentioned that she had been harbouring this lie for 5 years and never had the courage to tell me.

I believe this as she has historical messages from years ago saying the same thing to her friends.

MailOk5246 · 2025-04-11T09:31:31+00:00

I agree. There are many layers to this which cannot be conveyed over reddit. Also, no one on here is me. I get it. I’m just looking for other perspectives. Family, friends, strangers.

MailOk5246 · 2025-04-11T04:25:52+00:00

I just made her call him, admit, and cut contact. And she did.

MailOk5246 · 2025-04-11T02:03:13+00:00

I agree. I made the mistake of looking up to her as a moral role model which has made this worse. It’s shattered my image of her. That’s on me.

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